Please tell me what you think of this. its a series of text messages
Me: This is just too much drama for me. i cant handel this sort of thing. you should just date racheal because im not going to waist my time and thoughts for you to choose some other girl over me. goodbye
Him: Fare enough. sorry for the trouble. you were nice. thank you and good bye
Him again 5 mins later: Although i do wish you hadnt been so quick to cut and run, when idk how id feel about dating racheal, i understand how you feel and i wish you the best
Me: im sorry i just cant do it
Him: I understand and i wouldnt ask you to do anything you are uncomfortable with. ill see you around and i hope were cool and stuff. i like you alot Amanda.
soooo tell me what you make of all this.The background is: we had been seeing each other for the last month and then he got drunk and made out with some girl. i didnt care too much about it because he isnt my bf and i didnt consider us exclusive.
2007-07-12
17:15:15
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ran out of room: now he is thinking of actually dating this girl
2007-07-12
17:15:44 ·
update #1
no i didnt expect exclusive because i have been seeing someone else but the other guy is just a back up i keep around just in case something like this happens... i dont want to be alone. i just really liked him :*(
2007-07-12
18:14:59 ·
update #2
There's nothing to analyze. You said you didn't think much about him making out with another girl so that should be the end of it right there. But, something tells me you might just care more than you are letting on. Yes, he says that he likes you alot, after he made out with the other girl, and after you told him you couldn't do that anymore. That is the easiest time to say something like that. Good Luck!!!
2007-07-12 17:23:02
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answered by pupcake 6
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Girl - you want him AND it DOES bother you!!!
Hell it would bother me! If I'm seeing a guy for a month and the fool gets drunk WITHOUT me and kisses some other chickie well, that's a NO NO!!!
I'd be PISSED OFF!!!
It sounds as though he realizes he F*ed up and since you won't give him time of day he's using the other chickie as a way to get through to you.
It worked.
Now if you like him, set things straight.
If not, then let it be and make sure you are cool around him and whats her name.
2007-07-13 00:26:49
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answered by Anonymous
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It sounds like you did think you were exclusive or you wanted to be. And that you do care. It has to be made clear at the start of a relationship if you both want to be exclusive. If one does and one doesn't then you make your decision if you can handle it or not.
2007-07-13 00:25:42
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answered by dizzkat 7
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Let him! But be ware!!! He's trying to string you along just in case it doesn't work out with this other girl...you go get yourself a good man that won't lock lips with some other chickie
2007-07-13 00:19:14
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answered by Penelope 4
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To use his expression: cut and run.
No point in sticking around to see if he's going to be faithful later ... sounds like he doesn't have many standards of ethics.
2007-07-13 00:21:45
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answered by devyl gyrl 4
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I know it is hard...but let him go! Never chase a man! If he wants to date her..let him! Keep your dignity..
P.S. Men always want what they can't have...pretend you don't give a crap even if you do...don't cry and be cool and let it go...he will be wondering why you ain't chasing him and it will kill him...
Trust me....you gotta play the game...
Good luck! Stay strong!
2007-07-13 00:23:34
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answered by Lisa F 2
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Dont worry about him. You will find someone who treats you a hell of a lot better. Good luck
2007-07-13 00:18:55
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answered by Anonymous
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He sounds like a playa. Drop him like a flaming turd before you get hurt.
2007-07-13 00:20:08
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answered by *~*~*poof*~*~* 5
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i would leave him alone, sounds like he just wants you as back up. there is a better guy waiting for you!
2007-07-13 00:24:56
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answered by jennyforrich 6
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