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please give me some courage

2007-07-12 17:15:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

thank u people !!

2007-07-12 17:33:58 · update #1

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awwww!!sweet angel!!please don't be sad!!please!!!
you are very beautiful!you have a beautiful soul!your kindness is unlimited!people like us are always getting hurt!you've seen me feel at my lowest and you always encourage me!
well,angels fly around you cause you are an angel and when sby doesn't love an angel then he isn't worth it!when the time comes to move on,it's when you aren't loved!i know that you need to be loved,so do not let this man who you've given your heart and your soul and your life to,take your sunshine away!you are worth more than anything!i know that now you must feel low,but remember that you are loved by so many people!i for one,love you very much!
in greece they have a saying,"this to shall pass"meaning that one day you'll remember this day as sth that caused you pain,but also will show you that tomorrow is always better!

if he doesn't love you,then it's his loss!!maybe you should be thinking about getting sby who deserves you!sby who will appreciate your worth!
for you are worth more than all the treasures of the world!♥

2007-07-12 20:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0 0

Remember 4 items -

1) Listening

2) Reasoning

3) Understanding

4) Negotiating

You could try the long-lost art of speaking with your husband concerning your thoughts and feelings.

Choose a time when both of you have absolutely nothing to do. (no excuses, then)

Remember that you might need to give up some of your time for this to happen.

Also, choose an atmosphere which is conducive for discussion, such as a "neutral" room of the house, or perhaps (if the weather is nice), sitting on a blanket in the back yard.

Above all, the atmosphere must be relaxing and no interference, such as TV, other people, music, noisy locations, etc.

The simple trick of communicating is CALMLY (and I mean calmly) discussing with your husband your thoughts, dreams, and hopes. Other subjects could also be included.

Remember the word calmly. It does no good if one raises their voice and tries to control the conversation.

Another trick is listening to his side of the conversation. Don't you dominate the conversation and keep your ears open.

Remember, you asked him for his time, so give him your full attention.

Most conversation ends abruptly because of non-listening.

An item of importance; if your husband says something you don't agree with, don't belittle him; instead,

Negotiate and ask them what would be agreeable to them.

(This tends to work wonders - it makes people stop to think, sometimes helping them realize they just might be unreasonable. But keep in mind - they might do this to you, so have some reasonable answers ready.)

Keep the communications open and two-way.

You'll find that listening, reasoning, understanding, and negotiating are very effective ways of communicating and eventually everybody gets what everybody wants.

2007-07-13 00:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Living In Korea 7 · 1 1

What's happened,Rose? I wish you be cool and think of the past you two love each other,the precious time you share together. Take time pass for awhile,maybe tomorrow will be a good day to understand and come back to be as the same.

2007-07-13 00:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by กระจกใส 7 · 0 0

Honey I don't know what to say! I don't love my husband anymore either! It does not make for a good situation. Good Luck to you!

2007-07-13 02:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by Me 7 · 1 0

Did he tell you he doesn't love you anymore? Talk to him and ask him if he really doesn't love you. If he says he doesn't, then you have to move on. There's nothing else to do.

2007-07-13 00:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Meeya 7 · 1 0

send him to me and i will kick his @ss. there is no such thing as "not anymore" if he says he does not love you anymore then he never did in the first place. love is a decision. . . . .not a feeling.

2007-07-13 00:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Phoebe Buffay 5 · 2 0

Whatever you do, love yourself. Just because he doesn't love you (assuming he doesn't) doesn't mean there is one thing wrong with you. Don't base your self worth on anyone else's preception of you or their opinion of you.

2007-07-13 00:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

leave him. you dont need a man

2007-07-13 00:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by i_can_be_your_hero 4 · 1 0

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