How do people do the selabet thing? i've been trying to change my lafe style cause i've been a bit of a whore lately and i'm trying this 'no sex' thing. it's so difficult, in the past 2 days i've jacked off so much! and there's this guy that keeps checking me out and i want him!!! [btw, i have a thing for his twin to but they're semi-faternal] how do people do this and how can i get my mind of sex?
2007-07-12 16:20:11 · 8 answers · asked by avery 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
they're really identicle but one is buff and tan and the other is skinny and a little paler but they were born identicle they just don't look so much a like anymore
2007-07-12 16:30:02 · update #1
and i have an aquarium from when i went to australia and i have 2dogs. any other hobby suggestions?
2007-07-12 16:31:51 · update #2
Kiba babe, i'll email u and tell you what's really up with this...but basically it's too much, and i think this is better for me right now.
2007-07-12 16:41:46 · update #3
try going out with friends or going to the movies, do something that limits your privacy, whenever you feel over obsessed or worried.
make sure you always have more than 1 person around, or hang out in groups where everyone has a partner...
try spamming youtube, or just driving around...
no idea man, sorry
2007-07-12 16:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that I know how you feel. That's all I do is masturbate. My partner (and my ex before him) did not want anal intercourse from me, and I have an ileostomy, so my back end has been closed off since 1982. Before the surgery, my gatroenterologist had warned me about having anal sex with my colitis. I don't miss what I never had.
I agree with one of the other people who answered. He said to go out with friends or see movies to get your mind off of it. There is also jogging, cycling, etc. if you want to exorcise your demons through exercise, because by the time you get back home, you'll be too tired to do anything anyway.
2007-07-14 13:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by bradat26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry....i think that you need to find a hobby to take up some of your time, one that you can focus on, and put your heart into, like making sure to do the hobby as best as you can.........maybe start an aquarium? they are fun! or get a pet that you would enjoy the challenge of taking care of, hope i helped you and your raging hormones
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hmmmm.......well do you like art? even if you are not an artist, art can be very expressive, and has helped me express myself alot (im recomending acrylic painting) just get basic Crayola primary colored paints(and you can mix them to make all sorts of colors) and ask a local art store about gridding paper to paint, and how to get started.....or you can experiment yourself and go freeform! well, and the pets....if you want to try something easy and fun...i reccommend firebellied toads, they are fun.....and omg those twins sound so yummy.....oops...sorry, im day dreaming a little, lol, well they both sound great, but "pick" the one that you can relate to, not just by looks(even though i can be shallow too, lol) just relax and take some fun time, and possibly take a....vacation? or go out for the day and have fun? hope i helped a little more
2007-07-12 23:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by trl. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that is quite the question. I think while you can do it - do it. Go crazy if that is what your body is telling you. Just make sure you go crazy safely.
I don't think you should stop doing something you desire so much. It will cause more mental anguish than anything. Maybe stop sleeping around so much and stay with one person for a bit - that might control your urges without hurting you.
2007-07-12 23:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't keep my mind off of sex, but for me sex has to have a connection so I don't have sex as often as I would like as I am single right now. What helps me is a little thing I like to call PORN (and a fleshlight).
2007-07-12 23:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Paddington Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us do it completely unwillingly. I honestly can't remember the last time I had sex. It certainly isn't for a lack of want...
2007-07-12 23:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Cyanne2ack
2007-07-13 02:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by boutgivup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world does semi-fraternal mean?
Either you are fraternal or you aren't...
2007-07-12 23:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by DontPanic 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋