My husband and I started trying last month for a baby, after a week or two, I knew I wasn't pregnant and then today got my period. I was ok with because there is alot I needed to accomplish this month, so I wasn't feeling that bad. For the last couple of days I have been super biatchy and super emotional. I usually get a little whiny when I pms, but not like this. Could my subconcious be more upset than I feel I am. I mean, I was upset but not like "cry my eyes out shake my fist at god" kind of upset. Anyone else ever feel like that after finding out your not preggers?
2007-07-12
14:00:48
·
10 answers
·
asked by
rgehron1031
3
in
Pregnancy & Parenting
➔ Trying to Conceive
actually i just took a preg test this morning adn found out i wasnt when both me and hubby thot we were .it hurt bad but i didnt show much and now im feeling exactly liek u are! in a way i feel guilty liek if i lead my hubby on into thinkin i was and ten breaking the news sayign no..and he's acting the same way as me right now..lol i kno he's upset too
2007-07-12 14:39:49
·
answer #1
·
answered by Anonymous
·
1⤊
0⤋
I tried for 3 years to concieve my second child before using Metformin and Clomid. As soon as my doctor put me on those drugs I was pregnant 2 months later. My third child was concieved first month on the drugs. I know the heartbreak that comes with a period when you are trying to have a baby. Friends and family always had some sort of advice for me, but still I was heartbroken. All I can tell you is to stay positive and talk to your doctor. Also starting a prenatal vitamin now is very important. Even more important BEFORE you become pregnant than after.
2007-07-12 14:06:55
·
answer #2
·
answered by Kishauna_P 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
you may be more upset than you thought at first, but my advice is to relax cause you can't work yourself up every month that you don't get pregnant. My husband and I tried for over 2 and a half years, now we are finally 8 weeks (after we had stopped trying). so be patient, it will come but it may come in more time than you think
2007-07-12 14:05:52
·
answer #3
·
answered by june-bug54 2
·
0⤊
0⤋
It is perfectly normal, don't get too stressed though that can hurt your chances too. I was always upset then finally after months I gave up. I said fine f**k it I am done and I got pregnant the next month. Don't be to hard on yourself
2007-07-12 14:27:05
·
answer #4
·
answered by Amanda 2
·
0⤊
0⤋
No, but I never got the chance to...mine were...oh it's THAT quick?? and I freaked out...I'm sorry you're feeling upset, just remember it's only been a month, if you just came off b/c then it can take a few months for the stuff to get out of your system. Good luck to both of you!
2007-07-12 14:06:16
·
answer #5
·
answered by cartoon queen 2
·
0⤊
0⤋
YES!!! This is so normal. We tried for 6 months for our daughter- and we had a miscarriage in between. I was upset each month before the miscarriage when I took a test and it was negative. Then, the miscarriage. I had all but given up. It's ok to feel the feelings.
Hugz!
2007-07-12 14:05:00
·
answer #6
·
answered by NY_Attitude 6
·
3⤊
0⤋
Go get a book on fertility and read it. When you know more about your body, you will feel more in control.
Yes. It sucks to get your period and have your hopes dashed for a month. After a few months, it starts ruining sex.
2007-07-12 15:13:46
·
answer #7
·
answered by tweedropjes 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
Try waiting 3 years to get pregnant. It sucks.
2007-07-12 14:32:59
·
answer #8
·
answered by Jorian C 1
·
0⤊
0⤋
you recognize Mexican ladies like those white adult adult males as a results of fact they take care of them reliable. additionally white adult adult males like the Mexican ladies as a results of fact they recognize a thank you to handle a guy. The element of the rustic i'm in, no person cares approximately your race white, black, yellow, green, purple. each physique has an ethnic mix of a few style. So the place are you that its a project.
2016-11-09 04:10:58
·
answer #9
·
answered by sanderson 4
·
0⤊
0⤋
you should go to the doctor
2007-07-12 14:03:08
·
answer #10
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
3⤋