I am 15 years old and I am bisexual. I have a crush on one of my best friends, she is my age and is also bisexual. She is coming over this weekend and is sleeping over. It is going to be ocward for me. What should I do?
2007-07-12 13:39:46 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No I have not been with a girl, but she has. and that girl she was with wanted to be more than friends and now they are not friends anymore. I know she is be b/c of that and she told me.
2007-07-12 15:03:11 · update #1
I think you should sort of gradually come to the subject by talking about girl and girl relationships or something, and maybe ask her why she didn't want to be friends with her friend that liked her more than a friend. Maybe it's for a reason that wouldn't apply to you. But if you tell her you should tell her in the morning because if she doesn't like the idea you won't have to be together for very long.
2007-07-13 11:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny, go for it, start talking and just start a little truth or dare, when its your turn to ask, say things like "i dare you to kiss me" or "is it true that you arent wearing any underwear?" then the next dare, dare her to show you.
flirt like that a little, get the mood going, after a while, she might catchon, and start T/D you things like "is it true you have a crush on me?" at which point you can just blush and look away, she'll get the picture.
another thing you can do for truth is "is it true that you think i'm flirting with you?" then if you return the truth, she might ask if you are, and again, blush and look away, then if she starts looking into your eyes, dare her to kiss you.
its amoré.
under candlelight is best, dont use incence though, that will shorten the experience and het in the way of those lovey dovey smells.
but hunny, if you need anything, i'm here for emotional support if you need it.
2007-07-13 00:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by ultra_gamer_001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, You are really young to be sexually active or to really know if you are bi or straight or gay! How do you know that this is not just a phase in your life or that you are just trying to fit in with the crowd! Why are you attracted to women? I am not just putting you down because I am a lesbian but I was at least 17 before I started to act on my feelings. I think that you should really spend some time being a kid and grow up a little before you grow up to fast! Please don't take any of this the wrong way. I just trying to speak to you from experience.
2007-07-12 20:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by sweet candy 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I suggest telling her but do it only after flirting a little and gaging her interest in you. Just blurting it out could lead to an awkward weekend.
2007-07-12 20:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bring up the subject of being bi and work from there. BE WARY, though. It might not always work ar turn out great.
2007-07-16 21:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Caroline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so I'll give you the secret bisexual pass code:
"I'm interested. Are you?"
2007-07-19 02:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by gone fishing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats to be awkward about . Just enjoy the special time with her .
2007-07-12 21:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BLURTT IT OUTT!
Dude, seriously.
She's bisexual, why would that make an awkward moment?
You should never hid your feelings, she could like you too:).
Sit her down, tell her your feelings:).
2007-07-12 20:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by SarahMoore! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's one of your best friends and she's bi, she will understand 100%
2007-07-18 16:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Sparrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her and see what happens. you might be pleasantly surprised :) good luck
2007-07-12 22:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋