my age is 27 I live with my mother and my father I'm all the time with my self all the time scared si m the life never friends never BF to my life I was to school teacher see me all the time I was only and she say me you need to work hard and I was work very hard I say her I don't have any friend who to try to halpp me so I saw her somthing she no like and she no pass the me sh give to me MP and she say you need more work i don't now what I can do was 2 time for me and she no give to me P she tolld me make friends I can't I say her becouse all time or in my life no friends I'm so shy and to my job anly with my self i can't I thounght evrybody maby say ahhahahahah for me so I can't so I have 2 day in my room the only I did and I do now I smok and I drink I don't now I hete my self and my life I like to kill my self and to say bhe my life
2007-07-12 12:51:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'd be proud to be your friend, but I would appreciate if you wouldn't smoke. You should know many of us live lives of quiet desperation, we try and mask our true feelings so others can't tell, but many of us feel friendless and desperate. The most important thing is to realize this world is hard, and you don't need to make it worse by beating yourself up or being self destructive. Find some people who feel the same way you do, and try and make friends with them, people like me.
2007-07-12 13:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Stop drinking ans smoking. They will only add to your problems. Go to AA meetings and get a sponsor so that you have someone to talk to and maybe they can recommend a therapist. This will give you a start to make some friends and to help yourself feel better about life.
Please try those things before you do something drastic that you can't undo. Problems are only around temporarily but they can be solved if you find the way to stop them
Do you go to church ro only religious service? Talk to a priest/pastor/counselor too to help you get spiritual guidance and find peace.
Please try any of these suggestions.
I hope you a serious and not just looking fo attention. There are people who really do care.
2007-07-12 20:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a job? Do you still depend on your parents for your survival? What culture do you participate in? What country do you live in?
These are all important variables that need to be known by any of us before we can offer an opinion. Which is all our responses will be. If you live in the USA, have a job which provided you with an independent income, just jump. Get a small studio apartment within easy commute to your employment, and a market that you can get groceries from. Just jump. The experience of your decision to live independently will give you courage to expand your social activities. Heck, just going shopping for groceries is a wonderful opportunity. Quit smoking. It's expensive, and very bad for your health. Don't drink just to drink. Having a drink or two is ok. If you reason to
celebrate something. Are you overweight? If you are, get the book about the Atkins Diet. Its a good plan, and the results are visible soon. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. There are a lot of folks who really have it worse than you. Work hard to help them.
2007-07-12 20:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am 26 and I have no friends.To tell the truth I don't really want any.I like being alone it gives me time to think,I can figure out what I want to do with my life on my own.You should see a doctor about depression.I am taking anti-depressants and it has really helped me.Just don't kill yourself.It ain't worth it!
You can do anything you want with your life.You are still young.
2007-07-12 20:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by Desperado 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angela,
Ascolta mi bene, questo non devi farlo! Mi ai capito?
Whatever you do, smile cause life is a biotch and you are your best friend, resist the temptations to harm yourself and take a long walk instead.
Look at the birds in the sky, feed the pigeons do something just don't stay home and watch your life go by.
Sono stato ciaro si?
2007-07-12 20:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
KILLING yourself is not the way to go
why not STOP the drinking & smoking 1st
they will only add problems to your life NOT
stop the problems
it sounds like you are depressed & need some
MEDICAL help , see a DOCTOR & tell them how you feel, they can give you medicine to help
don't give up, your future can be better if you take care of yourself & get the help you need
2007-07-12 20:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can have a new life and relationship with God.
Don't throw your life away, there is a God in heaven who loves you and cares about you.
The reason God seems far away is because your sin has separated you from God, and the wages of sin is death--spiritual separation from God.
God, being a loving God doesn't want anyone to perish so He sent His Son to die on the cross in our place, paying the price of your sins and mine. Not only did He die for our sins, He rose for our Justification, so we can live a new life with God.
The bible says:
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
If you can believe in your heart that Jesus died on the cross for your sins and rose from the grave and you are willing to give up the sins in your life, just pray to God and ask Him to forgive you and save you from spiritual death.
I did six years ago and have never regretted it, I know I'm forgiven, I walk and talk with God and when I die I'll spend eternity in heaven with God!
What a deal!
Simply by believing!
God bless you
2007-07-12 20:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, ask this question again. Only this time make it understandable to us. Secondly don't kill yourself (if that's what you typed). Third get out and get some fresh air and talk to someone. Shyness can be overcome. You're Ok dear you're just human like the rest of us. Don't be afraid.
2007-07-12 19:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by zp055att 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop and think this over. Get some help.
1-800-784-2433
1-800-273-8255
Don't kill yourself. It's all gonna turn out fine.
2007-07-12 20:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by Muzer51 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get out smell nature
experience something that makes you feel great
get some postitve feedback from a loved one
go see a movie
YES you can do these things alone
and nothing is wrong with that
there are plenty of idiots in this world
present company included
you are the only one who knows what the
right thing to do is
good luck and everybody goes through hell to get to heaven
except for the A holes who commit suicide
I dont believe in GOD
but I do believe he or she would fry my *** if i killed myself
2007-07-12 20:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋