I am attracted to guys and I enjoy sex with them, I have had a sexual experience with a girl a year or so ago and at the time didnt like it but I have been curious ever since, does this mean im straightr gay, im really really worried :(
Pls help
2007-07-12 12:24:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
We are all sexual beings. By extension, each of us has a sexual orientation: an enduring attraction — be it sexual, romantic, emotional or affectional — to another person. Sexual orientation, however, varies from one individual to the next and exists on a continuum that ranges from exclusive homosexuality to exclusive heterosexuality. Between these two poles, there exist various forms of bisexuality.
It's thought sexual orientation is likely the result of complex interactions of a number of factors — genetics, cognitive, environmental, and biological.
Sexual orientation is different from sexual behavior: sexual orientation refers to feelings and to self-concept. People may — or may not — express their sexual orientation in their behaviors.
In most people, yes, and their sexual orientation emerges in early adolescence. What's more, there's also considerable evidence to suggest that genetic and hormonal factors play a key role in shaping a person's sexuality.
2007-07-12 12:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by TRACER ™ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may just be curious period. Just because you had an experience once doesn't mean you are gay. Even if you had them regularly, that still wouldn't make you gay. You would be Bisexual. That means attracted to both sexes. Just because you are curious about something doesn't mean you should try it again though. I'm curious about how planes really fly, but I hope no one would suggest I build my own and run off a cliff with it to see if it works, or if its as fun as everyone says it is.
You need to search your heart and decide what kind of life you want to lead.
2007-07-12 12:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by wada670 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't tell how old you are. One simply concludes that you are very young and that you have had sex with other guys.
Although everyone here tries to give a helping hand with their experiences, you will have to find out by yourself, without worrying. The outcome should be that you are what makes you happy.
I am gay, from what you wrote, if you are attracted to the guys you were with and enjoyed being with them, you are gay, but you sound like you are still very young and discovering.
The fact that you did not like it with the girl this one time means nothing!! It might have been your inexperience, hers, lack of chemistry, the weather... so many things affect the moment.
You don't explain that you were with the girl to confirm your orientation, or that you were with her because you wanted to, so many things to consider!
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Take your time, dont rush, dont worry.
Now, if you worry that you might be gay, that is another totally different question to ask yourself
2007-07-12 13:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to a guy and have grown kids, however about 5 years ago I had sex with a women, and to be honest with you I can`t stop wondering to this day if I am straight or gay, cause I really liked it. I think maybe it might be considered Bi sexual.
2007-07-12 12:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been there when I was younger. I had the best of both worlds. Go on the Internet and locate the Gaydar Meter, which will test you to see how much of you is gay and how much you is straight. It is very interesting and fun. We are all different on the scale.....and then go with the flow and stop worrying.
2007-07-12 12:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
at the time you didn't like it because you wernt concentrating on it. you were concentrating on if it was right or wrong. try it again.....youre probably straight but curious.... and its ok...but....your wondering and the only way that you are going to come to terms with this is if you try it again....
2007-07-12 12:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by john W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means you are at least bi
2007-07-12 12:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what are you so curious about?
2007-07-12 12:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by vanessa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋