i'm 23. i moved in with my sister 2 years to go to college where she lives. now that i graduated, I hate my job (a retail hardware store). My sister is a difficult person to get along with. She likes to make me mad, and she invites her boyfriend to spend the night which makes me feel very uncomfortable as I have a strict set of morals. I try not to let it bother my but it always does.
I know they are going to get back together, and i dont want to see him anymore or see him spend the night anymore. I want to move back home tomorrow, quit my job, and just spend the whole day driving 7 hours home to my parents house. That's how much i DONT want to be around him.
I love my sister, but she's never going to change... he's such a bad boyfriend to her, they're a bad match, but she doesn't get it, she says shes lonely and that some attention is better than no attention. Part of me moved to help her get rid of him, but that didn't work. Should I just pack up my bags and leave tomorrow?
2007-07-12 12:16:58 · 10 answers · asked by Justina 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Why not keep your job and find your own place nearby? That way, you don't have to be around him and you can still see your sister on a regular basis.
2007-07-13 04:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by Webby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is pretty complicated. If there is actual abuse (physical or mental) leaving is not the right decision, it will only cause her to draw closer to the only support system left…him! If you just don't like him or if he just seems to be kind of a looser that is something she will have to figure out on her own. If you just don’t approve of her “lifestyle” the living arrangement is only driving the two of you apart and it't best to move on.
2007-07-12 12:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by major_20_20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 23. Time to start taking care of your own life. Stop trying to fix other people. Get out and start living and don't make the same dumb mistakes she apparently has.
2007-07-12 12:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by zp055att 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be careful what you say. You may need him to provide a reference for your next job. Be nice.. get a new job and then phone him to tell him how much you hate it and him and all the rest of it!
2016-05-21 00:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you moving in didnt help her by now its not going to. If you keep pushing it you may cause your sister to distance herself from you and I am sure you dont want that. Pack up move she is an adult and can make her own decisions as are you.
2007-07-12 12:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by firetdriver_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-07-12 12:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, you should. New experiences for you just down the road.
2007-07-12 12:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur her sister.....never ever give up on ur sister....ur obviously goin thru awrong approach ...try something diff...and keep trying till u get it right....
2007-07-12 12:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by no shame in my game 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the military
do your duty to your country
2007-07-12 12:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by captainamerica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it!
2007-07-12 12:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by vanessa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋