I still love my ex, he still loves me, we want to be together and spend as much time together as we can, my live-in, refuses to leave me alone, is very agressive and a total pain. I dont want to call the police as I have 2 kids (to my ex) in the house, we constantly argue and he has shown agression towards me more than once.
2007-07-12 11:45:02 · 15 answers · asked by Cal D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
talk to Jeremy kyle
2007-07-12 11:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
let me get this straight in my head; You moved a boyfriend in to live with you in the house you share with your children .Their father and you still have feelings for each other and want to get back together .The live-in bf is violent to you and wont leave you alone[ do you mean he wont let you out of his sight or he is making unwelcome demands on you ] you must call the police because you have 2 kids in the house they are a reason to call the police not a reason not to call the police. You say he has been violent to you more than once how do you know he will not be violent to the kids.Get their father to help you .Go to a refuse go anywhere but get the police to him and keep you and your kids safe from the domestic violence you are being subjected to and the kids are witnessing.
2007-07-12 19:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could talk to your your ex about this blokes behaviour. It's not good have an aggressive bloke in the same house as your children. Talking to the police I think would be a good idea because they can protect you and your children from him. I kinda agree with the top answer about packing this bloke case, leaving his case outside, changing the locks and having the ex come stay in your house. If this bloke starts causing trouble then call the police.
2007-07-12 21:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by ☺ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you havent got the strength to throw him out you will have to go. I once had a similar problem that was quite easily solved, even though it didnt feel like it at the time. I went to see a solicitor, she did all the work for me. First of all a Balif served him an injunction order with the power of arrest if he contacted me or came near my home, he had his name on the tenancy agreement which was removed by a judge. Im sure if you moved your x back in he wouldnt stick around for long, if he does he must be a looser who only wants to cause trouble and you will have to get profesional help, these people are there to help us. Good luck, x
2007-07-12 18:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by lindyloo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Surely it is better for your kid to see the police than seeing all the arguments and the aggression, so he agress you today who tell you he is not going to atack the kids tomorow? Get someone to pick up the kids someone you trust who will keep them safe and then call the police.
2007-07-12 19:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Maon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't find a way to get him to leave the house, then maybe you need to consider leaving the house. He probably doesn't want to leave because he knows it will be the end of your relationship. Figure out what will be easiest on the kids and then just do it.
Good Luck!!!
2007-07-12 18:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by LasVegasMomma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok is his name on the lease or deed of the house? If not you have to (by Law) give him 30 days written notice of eviction. After the 30 days take your children to a sitter and have him removed from the home.
GOOD LUCK SISTER
2007-07-12 18:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy Loo Hoo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are not prepared to take the neccessary action you may have to live with it.
You could simply have the locks changed whilst he is out.
2007-07-13 03:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an eviction notice. Give him 30 days to move. If he doesnt comply then you can go to court and have him removed from your home
2007-07-12 18:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
is he Keith Miller? tell him that Winston won the lottery and offering free drinks to all on a first come first served basis
2007-07-12 18:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
leave the place yourself and move in wiv your ex
2007-07-12 19:00:32 · answer #11 · answered by paul t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋