I met this guy, but I am getting all these red flags. We spent last weekend together and he didn't take a bath/shower for three days. Is that normal and what the hell is his problem? He also is very bad at economizing like he goes to the most expensive markets and when I asked him about it he tried to make me feel like I am cheap. I am careful about how I spend my money because I don't have much so I am afraid this relationship is doomed. I have only dated one other person I liked and he never called me back. I don't think he wanted me as a friend and we live in a very rural area so I feel like an outcast and this guy is just using me until he finds someone else he can use.
2007-07-12 11:02:47 · 7 answers · asked by SweetKisses 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Honey don't settle for dog food just because there is no lobster around.... keep shopping ;)
2007-07-12 11:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dulos 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your first line answered your own question "...but I am getting all these red flags."
What does red typically mean, STOP. Turn around and RUN. I have learned that your intuition can and will save u from a lot of wasted time and stress if you listen to it every once & a while.
2007-07-12 18:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully , you see those red flags and realize that this person is using you and is not a person you would want to get tied to. If you learned that much , you've come along way.
2007-07-12 18:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel he is using you then what is the question? dump him immediately. also to have a successful relationship it would help to have the same or close to the same thoughts as to spending habits. to make you feel cheap is not a good way to start something new with a person
2007-07-16 06:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that he didn't shower is three days is just gross, I don't see a problem with spending money, if he spending his money I don't see why is that a problem, but the bath issue, that is a big no no
2007-07-12 18:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by rickyhunter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH LORD BABY, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you feel things are going badly now, you are ahead of the game.He sounds like a boorish, stank-butt, moron. No matter where you live, rural or urban, you don't have to settle.It seems like you have already answered your own question kiddo. Now just have the balls to tell him to bounce.
2007-07-12 18:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you suspect he is using you, get out of the relationship quickly. This guy sounds manipulative.
2007-07-12 18:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by LiveToTell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋