A guy just told me he Loved me! he says he means it but its freaking me out...what do I do?
2007-07-12 10:17:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Just tell him that you appreciate it, but you haven't reached that level yet. Don't be fooled, some guys just say it in order to get into ones pants. Don't freak out too much, then again I think I would if a guy said to me after just a few days or even dates. Good luck!
2007-07-12 10:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by laranita82 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you don't feel the same way you have to be honest. Tell him that you are flattered that he feels that way, but that you just don't feel the same. It saves him "face" acknowledges his feelings and at the same time keeps the guilt off of you. Is there any hope that you will come to love him too? I have been in relationships before that the guy "felt" something way before I did. I think for me it just took getting to know him better and then the development of that relationship.
The relationship I'm in now, I am the one who had feelings first! Go figure!!! Good luck Sweetie! Nana
2007-07-12 17:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what your heart tell you to do.. you are young and just because some one say they love you that don't mean you have to love them back.. if you are freaking out leave it be.. tell the person to back off and that you don't feel the same way
2007-07-12 17:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by vonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is scary..well at first it is
so if you are nervous you probably don't love him back just yet. tell him you're not sure if you love him back, and say there is time to grow though.
if time goes by and you still aren't sure, it's not love...but it culd be a great friendship.
but if you end up having the feeling of not wanting to ever leave him, or that you would spend your life with him, then you're probably falling in love.
so just go with the flow and you'll see how you end up feeling.
2007-07-12 17:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww, super cute.
you have the right to freak out if you just started going out, but if the relationship isn´t new, then calm down, I´m sure you love him too or feel something for him or else you would just dump him and you wouldn´t be so excited.
2007-07-12 17:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by natalia k 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you loved him, you wouldn't be freaking out or asking us what to do. You have to be honest with him.
2007-07-12 17:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by tiedtoarainbow 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
either love him back or, start packing and RUN! This can be tough either anyway you look. Sounds like your not ready for this type of a serious relationship.
2007-07-12 17:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably trying to freak you out and now he is grinning by the whole of his success. Find his weak spot and use it against him.
2007-07-12 17:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that is great and move on. If you are not comfortable with the idea, just don't make a big fuss about it.
2007-07-12 17:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by ericka1031 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, do you love him? Go for it if you do because it's the only thing that really makes life bearable.
2007-07-12 17:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋