My boyfriend has another girlfriend. The three of us get along very well. We go on vacation together. He and she do things together. Me and Him do things together. Me and her do things together. The three of us went to Bora Bora and had a commitment ceremony together. We have been together for five years now. Everything is going great. We have a house and a condo. That way if the two of them want to be alone or me and him want to be alone, we go there. At first, we had three residences and decided to stop paying rent at one place. He would stay with her a few nights a week and the same with me. There is no jealousy. There is another young lady that he has met and had dinner with a few times. We met her and really like her a lot. We feel everything is ideal. We are all really happy. There of course are some problems as with all couples, life finances and stuff. What do you think about this?
2007-07-12 09:48:14 · 6 answers · asked by Sara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There will only be 3. We are very health conscious so it is not about him sleeping around at will. It is upon our approval. Plus, just for the record we all get tested every six months. None of us would die for sex. He is very sexual and to be honest neither of us could fulfill it all or even try. LOL With 2 to 3 involved, every one is happy.
2007-07-12 10:04:05 · update #1
As long as everyone stays honest about it.
2007-07-12 09:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by phil8656 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are opening a can of Worms with this questions. Most people will answer this question using their morals and values instilled in them! Life is too short, If you are happy with your situation then why ask this question? If you are content with your lifestyle ....then just know that the more women your man falls for the more women you will have to share him with!
I personally am selfish and would not want to share my man with another woman.......I love attention and could not deal with my man staying half the week with another women!
2007-07-12 16:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lady D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I do not agree with polygamous relationships. I think that marriage is something that is sacred and she be shared between two adults, not one man and a slew of other women. Honestly, I see it as a benefit to the man because he doesn't have to be monogamous to any one woman, because he can have as many wives/girlfriends as he wants, but the women can only have him.
I would not want to share my hubby with anybody. I have a solid marriage and a lot of friends. I have a lot of friends that are females that I can go out with, have fun with, etc. and my hubby is at home in bed with me every night.
I am not judging you or telling you that your choice of lifestyle is wrong. I am just simply telling you what my opinion is....since you asked. Best of luck to you and your family.
2007-07-12 16:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. If it's alright with everyone involved then why the hell not? If it makes you all happy, then more power to you. Polyamorous relationships would probably end half of the divorce in this country.
2007-07-12 16:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by Me baby Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ya'll are wierd.
2007-07-12 16:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by civil_av8r 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lucky bastard he is, they are very healthy if all parties are okay with it,
2007-07-12 16:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋