I really try very hard to not judge because I really honestly don't walk in their shoes or on their path.
It's impossible to know or see the frame of reference all the time that drives and motivates people.
However, that being said, someone who isn't affirming or kind, they just don't last long with me. It's a values thing. I want friends who affirm, uplift, and help me to grow through interesting perspectives and knowledge.
2007-07-12 09:45:30
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answered by JC 7
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I think that is how the mind is made.. to judge, calculate, figure out, come up with assumptions. I try not to judge. I always give the benefit of the doubt. You never know what is truly going on in someones life.
2007-07-12 09:34:02
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answered by girl_fired_up 2
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I judge myself hard... but people judge me plenty... since I know how it feels to be judged I try to be on the safe side and keep my opinions to myself and just watch and learn from what others go through.
2007-07-12 10:37:10
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answered by Anonymous
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I think we all judge people to some degree as well as them judging us. Just human nature.
2007-07-12 09:35:25
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answered by wow one 3
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I can honestly say that I try my best NOT to because of all that I have been through personally. You never know exactly why someone is the way they are and/or whats going on behind their closed doors....hence, it is so wrong to judge them. And you can only judge by comparison which is not good because who defines what ''good'', ''pretty'', ''rich'', ''smart'' etc. really is without comparison when everyone is different and came from different backrounds?
2007-07-12 09:34:10
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answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4
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I probably get judged more than I do the judging.
2007-07-12 09:32:53
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answered by Anonymous
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i do not judge people some times people judge me sometimes
2007-07-13 07:50:09
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answered by Kevin N 3
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I judge people and they judge me. I think that's the way our society has set things up to be. We judge things in order to keep ourselves safe from some strange sort of unknown danger...
2007-07-12 09:34:26
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answer #8
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answered by sixtyintwelve 2
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I try my best not to judge people and hope I'm not being judged by anyone.
2007-07-12 09:32:34
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answered by My Jay 5
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Yes and yes everyone judges everyone and those who say that they don't judge people or that people don't judge them are denying it because at some point everybody judges everybody else (I said that twice >.<)
2007-07-12 09:35:50
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answered by Cutencrazy 2
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