I really do not have a question. I am just venting. I think my gf is about to dump me. The thing is I am not sure I think its bad idea. It seems like lately she is so angry that we never enjoy our time together. I also feel like she blames me for all her problems. I have only been with her for 3 months, how could I cause all her problems. I guess its just scary. She is my first gf. I moved 600 miles to be with her. Now I am going to be all alone in a new town and broken hearted.
2007-07-12 09:25:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wow you guys are great. You have helped me get a little perspective.
2007-07-12 09:41:36 · update #1
Recognize abusive behavior and move away from it. Even though I think it was a bad idea to move for someone that you have only been with three weeks not, theres no changing that. Break-up because she clearly has control issues and problems with her self-esteem too. It may be hard to get umped but instead of looking at the scenario like you're going to be alone and brokenhearted in a new city, seize the opportunity to get out and about and learn all about the fascinating new city in which you live. She dead weight and you should rejoice that you won't have to deal with her oppression tactics. Get out there, be young and sexy and meet new and interesting people who share your interest. Be the social creature that God intended you to be! ☻
2007-07-12 09:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by rksu747 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep strong, this GF may not be the one for you but in moving to be with her she may have created alot of new opportunities for you in moving to a new town, it can be scary but she is not worth it if she is just looking for someone to blame, Id rather be alone than with someone who uses me to dump their trash on, my advice dump her and get out and explore your new environment as a single girl.
2007-07-12 16:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by cherry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that definitely sucks! maybe it is for the best though, you sound like a totally together female and shouldn't be single to very long. Take the time alone to reflect on your new life and your new city. explore your new found possibilities and have some fun! good luck!!!
2007-07-16 06:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, can you go back home? if you have no money I'm sure there are people who love you who can help you get back. your family will always love you, sometimes they are all you got left.
Just have a long heart to heart with her, try your hardest to resolve things and if you can't by the end of it do yourself a favor and break it off for the both of you.
2007-07-12 16:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by jedi46300 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your head up and see if the both of you can work things out! Have a talk with her to see how things can be fixed.
2007-07-12 16:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dam n , thats sounds bad
decide wether to move back or not
get some distance for at least awhile
then she has to deal with her problems herself
and you get to choose what you want
2007-07-12 16:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would jump the gun and dump her first and save your dignity. just say you are no longer invested in the relationship and that you are just not meant for each other. good luck!
2007-07-12 16:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry! I hope that things work out well for both of you.
Good luck!
2007-07-12 16:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by hapetobme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happend to a friend of mine, he tried to stay here but got home sick and moved back to florida, sorry to hear that
2007-07-12 16:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by TRACER ™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww...
well, that sucks!
But hey, she aint worth it if shes going to play u like that
I'd be like thanks for havin me move my life for u just to blame me for everything!
anyhow, I hope you find ur way
2007-07-12 16:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋