My bffl thinks im mad at her, but you see im just doing a lot of thinking about our friendship becasuse she did make me mad. how can i not seem like i am mad at her when i kinda am so/so mad??????
2007-07-12 08:35:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you guys should just ignore eachother for a little bit. A week or a little less then a week will do. That way, it gives you two time to think about your friendship, and if you guys are really mad at eachother. Sometimes, life gets all confusing and people can't think straight. They get mad because of the littlest things that are not important. After this cooling off period, you guys could talk about why you were mad before and come up with a little compromise or a hug. That way, you won't have to worry about not acting mad, instead you can just resolve the issue. Meanwhile, during the cooling off period, hang out with friends you havent hung out with in a long time or find new friends. This doesn't mean look for a replacement bffl right away, but it means that you shouldnt spend that entire week moping around doing nothing.
2007-07-13 03:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you can do at this point is be honest with her and let her know why you are upset. Telling her and talking about it will clear the air and will probably make your friendship even stronger. Good luck to you!
2007-07-12 15:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Angie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont need to hide how u feel towards her..u need to tel her that ur mad at her..and wat she thinks is rite..are u just scared about whats going to happen wen she finds out why u are mad at her? the best way to handle this is to talk this out with her and let her know how u feel. dont wry because if u hide how u feel u wil just find more the reasons to be mad and the madness willl go on inside u..so just let everything out and dont wry bout the outcome..because ur friend needs to know that she made u mad..hope i helped and gud luck.
2007-07-12 15:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hide your fellings, otherwise it is not a good friendship. you have to let her know why you are mad and what she did to make you that way.
2007-07-12 15:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Cecilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with her....and i promise u it will make u feel better. tell her y ur mad and what she did wrong to make u mad...that way ur not holding it inside, and better yet ur not holding any grudges
2007-07-12 15:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel.
If she won't talk to you, tell you parents or use somone else's idea on this list.
I'm sure they'll (parents or the public) have a great idea to cheer you up!
If not. . .idk. I'm very, very very very very sry.
Bye
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P.S. I got another idea. Go to:
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Hope this helps. If not, a Million sorrys
PP.S. Gotta run. BYE!
2007-07-12 15:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Candee_Puffs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth, that you need space to think about your friendship, if she is any kind of friend she will understand
2007-07-12 15:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by cmoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey be mad and don't play games, it'll just come back up again
2007-07-12 15:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what is on your mind. No one can read minds so tell her what is bothering you and see if you can work it out.
2007-07-12 15:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm. why not tell her why your mad instead of lying to both her and yourself. you both deserve better.
2007-07-12 15:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by audreyanddj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋