How do I get along with co-workers I can't stand?

Question

Everyone likes this girl exept me and the manager. She is fake,fake,fake. I am a very honest person. I want to tell her how I feel but I can be a little blunt which comes across as rude. I cant respect my other co-workers if they like her. To me they have character flaws if they cant see through it all. We butted heads once, I can get along with her but I truly can not stand her plus she's lazy, and isnt clean. Im a neat freak. I dont like it affecting the way I feel about the others. HELP!!!!

Answer 1

Try and be nice all the time if you can. I know how you feel. Ask her politely to clean something up if she leaves it a mess. Others will see. If she is as fake as you say she is, then it will show through over time. If you continue being nice and trying your best to maintain a professional relationship, you will come out on top. Just gotta suck it up for a while.

Answer 2

You don't have to like every one you work with, but it's still a free country, so your co-workers can like anyone they want to, even if it's someone you regard as fake. The fact that you feel that people who do like this person have character flaws, makes me wonder if you aren't a little obsessive re your dislike of her. But, the best thing here is avoidance- as much as possible, and wether you like her or not is a non issue. If she is truly lazy and sloppy, and the manager is wise to it, her time will come, and she may (hopefully) be fired or reassigned.

Answer 3

I think u should just be the bigger person say hi amd bye to here but u shouldn't have to say more unless she asks u a question don't let her see that u don't like her make it seem like u have no problem at all and most of all try to avode her.
Good Luck!

Answer 4

Well you do have to work around, dont let it affect your job. If your other co-worker seens to like her, and if she is the way that you say she is they will find out soon about her.