Ok, well like last year my friend started smoking weed, and she kind of lost interest in me and she was always getting mad at me... And like we were best friends for a long time, so im wondering what i should do. i cant get a hold of her at all though, and yeah...
2007-07-12 08:10:38 · 14 answers · asked by Megannn. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thanks you guys for all the answers.
2007-07-12 08:23:15 · update #1
First of all I am truly sorry about your friend. It is hard when you and your best friend grows apart. I would still try to stay in touch with her if you can. It maybe that she needs sometime to figure her life out, but be aware that she may never and she may continue to make more harmful choices.
Your friend may come back around and maybe she won't but make sure you take care of you. Spend time with other friends, have fun, maybe make other good friends.
It is hard to loose a best friend at any age because they are rare and precious but there are a lot of people out there who would be a good friend to you as well.
Hope for the best,
R
2007-07-12 08:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by muesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there's not a whole lot you can do other than pray for her.
This is not an uncommon occurrence. If I were you I would just move on to other friends and should she come around just be civil but should she want you to follow her lead into drugs or want to poison you with a culture you're not into make it clear that you will not tolerate her being high or acting out around you.
Maybe she will realize the road she's headed down but you have to live your life. If it's without her, so be it.
2007-07-12 08:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by m_c_m_a_n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugly situation, no doubt. You guys are both very young, so what I would suggest would be nothing short of a full blown intervention. Talk directly with her parents and inform them of what's going on. If they are decent parents, they would be in the best position to get your friend the help she needs. Don't worry, you are not ratting her out but rather you might save her from a permanent downward spiral.
2007-07-12 08:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Rckets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend like that too. she got in big trouble at school and all this crap and i wish so badly we can go back when we were little. but i can't. so my advice to you is still be her friend but comfront her about what you are feeling. thats what i did. i mean, you see tv commercials about being a "influence" and stuff, right? so be an influence. she will listen to you cuz deep down she probably wants help. so say you care about her and things will be coming back to normal. it will just take time.
2007-07-12 08:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop her like a bad habit for now- shes doing her own thing and obviously doesnt care wether you are or arnt a part of her life right now- i say give it some time- if yall were that great of friends you never lose site of eachother in the long run
2007-07-12 08:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by ADNAMA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like at the end there she wasn't much of a friend. Just let her know you will be there for her if she ever needs someone to talk to. I hope everything works out o.k.
2007-07-12 08:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by floridacrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you care for her, make some new freinds because she has a promblem and you dont want to start either She'll come around
Goodluck
2007-07-12 08:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her decision to do things like smoke and I understand you want to protect/ help her but there's nothing you can do. If she comes to you, be there to support her. If not, just move on with your own life.
2007-07-12 08:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by Lucy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a friend to you ,stay away from her so you do not get sucked into the drugs she is doing! Find some new friends
2007-07-12 08:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your fault
its her problem
its becuase of the weed and the drugs
help her out
do something
or soetihng bad might happen
or tell her if she's gonna be liek that then our friendship is over
2007-07-12 08:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by jemie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋