So when I was at the club some jerk came up to me and squeezed my butt. I turned around and he looked at me like i was just some piece of meat. I kicked him in the balls with my stilettos and got right out of there!
my friend told me that he threw up and passed out, and an ambulance came for him. She also said the cops came and she told them everything that happened and they are going to press sexual assult charges on him. OMG i feel bad. Do you think he deserved it? What do you think happened to him? What would you have done?
2007-07-12 07:18:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
It was just a reflex. He grabbed, you kicked. You were angry, and somehow men don't seem to think we ever have a right to feel that way.
He'll live.
He probably would've just thought a slap was "cute".
However, he was probably just a little drunk too, since it was at a club.
My advice: stay out of "clubs" as much as possible. There's nothing there but drunk, horny guys looking to pick up women for one night stands. If you want to go out with your friends, to drink or whatever, go to a nice restaurant; the atmosphere is less annoying.
2007-07-12 10:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey POPgoes..., I was with you until you tried to blame her wardrobe for the asshat's lack of manners. I don't care if a woman is naked, a man has no right to grab her ***. And to the questioner, a vomit inducing kick to the balls IS NOT the proper way to handle asshats. I hope HE brings assault charges against YOU, you did not have to kick him there, the only acceptable physical response would have been a slap to the face.
2007-07-12 14:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by littlevivi 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
even though it sounds crazy, some girls like that sort of "attention". i put that in quotes because i have no idea how they think that is attention. i hate it when hands are rubbing me the wrong way, especially some stranger. i would have done the exact same thing. in some sense i would feel a little bad about the sexual charges thing, but i doubt you went to the club to get ur *** grabbed by some jerk and he is definitley going to think twice next time about it. next time you should try a little verbal abuse before kicking him square in the balls haaha well done though =]]
2007-07-12 14:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I wouldn't worry. D*ckheads are like buses - there will be another one along in a minute.
2007-07-12 16:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that is just wrong. I would of just told him not to touch me and told a guy that worked there what happened. I woud assume they would kick him out and it would be over. I think a slap would have been ok but a kick to the balls is just a bit much. It will also help if you don't dress like a hoochie.
2007-07-12 14:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 5⤋
I've been grabbed by women quite a few times(crotch and butt) and I didn't break their jaws or anything(or punch their boobs or whatever).
2007-07-12 16:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by Nep 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy and yeah - he deserved it.
That is called instant Karma - hopefully he learned a lesson about other people's rights.
2007-07-12 14:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by Trapped 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋
I wouldn't shed any tears over him.
2007-07-12 14:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by Somes J 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your butt belongs to you. He assaulted you first. He got what he had coming to him. Don't lose any sleep over it.
2007-07-12 14:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by TheProfessor 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Great answer, littleviv2000
2007-07-12 15:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋