My friend who is 15, & will be 16 in nov. has been dating this kid 4 like 7 months. I have never met him but since we have grown apart. She is leaving for vacation on saterday and last week we planned on going out before she left. So i called her and i asked her what we were doing to do, then she said "oh i have plans now" They were with her boyfriend. She out right ditched me. I didn't say anything 2 her right then besides to just call me if her plans changed but it's still bothering me. What should i tell her??
2007-07-12 07:11:06 · 6 answers · asked by anon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should tell her that you are happy she's found a boyfriend but that it hurts your feelings when she bails on your plans to hang out with him at the last minute. Ask her how she would feel if the situation was reversed and you did that to her. If she acts like she doesn't care how you feel, just ditch her because the friendship is clearly over. Good luck, hon- we've all been there!
2007-07-12 07:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing...the more you grow up the more it will be like that. More and more of your friends are going to be in relationships and the older you get the more serious the relationship. The same goes for you. It is hard to understand now but once you get into your first serious relationship you will see how it is. Im not saying that everyone starts ditching their friends a 100% but people's priorities change.
2007-07-12 14:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make some new friends, let her see what shes missing, get out there and make lots and lots of friends and when shes left with no friends she should soon come running to you, friends come before boys, but people forget this and the best way for you to deal with this is make new friends and pretty soon her and boyfriend will break up and she'll be left with nothing. It seems mean, but it will teach her not to take you for granted and kick you to the curb and pcik you up again whenever she needs you, you shouldnt have to try and talk to her. Let her do that and realise what she left behind!xxxx
2007-07-12 14:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying something probably will create some tension.
At 15 you're all but adult, and while ditching isn't cool at any age, it's not so bad.
I'd say she was wrong to not tell you, and if you do say something, that's what I would stress.
It's one thing to cancel on a friend for a romantic reason, but there's no excuse for not telling you as soon as she knew.
2007-07-12 14:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Tell her that you feel like she is dropping you for her boyfriend. Let her know that you do not expect her to give him up or even you, just tell her how hurt you are by everything.
2007-07-12 14:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by princess m 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing....she will need you again and then - at that point - you need to decide if you can cast the heartbreak aside and welcome her back.
2007-07-12 14:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋