my 11 yearold girl searches lesbiens making out on google and youtube? i know shes strait cause one time when her and her boyfriend were at the movies they were making out through the whole thing! i know i was 6 fows away so she's not bi or anything its just i want to know how to stop this habbit! i cant block anything our systym dosent allow that and we dont have much money so we cant buy a new one! PLEASE what should i do?!?!!?
2007-07-12 05:56:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What should you do? Get an atlas.
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2007-07-12 05:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 13⤊ 1⤋
First of all this question is so wrong is soooo many levels. One: She is only 11 years old, she is not even a preteen yet. She should be out playing with barbies not with boys making out at the movies. What kind of a mother lets her 11 year old make out.
Two: You were watching her make out. That has to be some kind of boundries crossed here....You can be watching you child make out...that is a little weird if you ask me.
Three: You dont know if she is straight, bi or les. She dont even know that answer being at such a tender age of 11!
Four: Just because she makes out with boys dont mean she is straight! I had sex with a man and I am 100% pure Les. I love women even though in my past I had sex with a man. I was trying to find myself and so is she.
Five: Whether or not, she is your daughter and you should love her gay straight or bi. You have to love her.
Six: Be a MOTHER! Get control of your child. If she is out kissing boys at 11, that is an impression on your parenting skills. You should keep more of an eye on your child and I dont mean watching her make out at the movies. You need to be teaching her life skills and lessons instead of letting a 11 year old surf the web unattended.
Seven: and this is my final Point, Ma'am you really need to communicate with your daughter, tell her it is ok to be what she wants to be, however she is the one going to live with the decisions she wants and if she continues to go down this road kissing boys at 11 she will be pregnant by the time she is 14. You need to be a mother to her, not her friend.
2007-07-12 06:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by Agent_m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 11, I'm surprised she's making out at all - has she already reached puberty? During adolescence, it's not uncommon for boys or girls to experience feelings for both sexes. How do you know she's not bi? Approx 40% of the population is not comlpletely homo- or heterosexual. I think you should talk with her about it instead of asking how to stop behaviours you don't find acceptable.
BTW,
this user says on another post that she's a virgin, so she's obviously lying somewhere.
2007-07-12 06:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by oldwhatshername 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd be less concerned at her simply looking at a picture of lesbians making out, than her actually doing it with some boy who's probably got bad intentions further down the road. You mean you just sat there at the cinema and watched your ELEVEN year old daughter make out for 2 hours with a boy? What kind of mother are you?
2007-07-12 08:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by rob1977nc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kid is 11!! Don't you think she's a bit over-sexed? You should prob step back and examine the things in her life that might be making her this way (i.e. you) At this rate she'll be pregnant by 14. That said, maybe her turning out to be a lesbian would be a blessing...think on the positive side! :)
2007-07-12 06:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Gator 87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm maybe she is bi...yea i've made out w/ a guy but that doesn't mean i dont like girls! (yes im bi)
oh and i think shes a bit young for a bf let alone kissing
*edit*
i'd like to know how you have an 11 year old daughter when a week ago you were a "virgin"
2007-07-12 06:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by cdr dsw = <3 [11/1/10] 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she's curious and exploring her sexuality. Just because she has made out w/ a boy doesnt mean anything at such a tender age.
Tell her it is okay to be curious and if she likes women that that is okay and you support her. Just be clear that watching this sort of thing on the internet is inappropriate. I dont think what kind of porn it is really mattersm just that she understands taht it is unacceptable.
2007-07-12 06:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's okay for her to make out with her boyfriend at the movie theater, but it's not okay for her to look at lesbians kissing on the internet? With all due respect, the latter seems rather harmless by comparison.
2007-07-12 06:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ben 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's curious. And later on, if she figures out she likes girls then you should love her as much as you would if she was straight. Don't you think she's a little young to be making out in a movie theater?
2007-07-12 06:10:18 · answer #9 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
what kind of mother are you letting your daughter surf the net at 11, and letting her make out with guys on dates???
At that age she doesnt know what she is, kissing a guy doesnt make her straight, looking up girls doesnt make her gay. You need to have a talk to your daughter and teach her some morals.
2007-07-12 06:05:14 · answer #10 · answered by twikfat 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
what are you so scared about?, why would you want to stop your daughter from finding out that the world is made up of all different kinds of people ... not just one kind !, she is not hurting anyone she is just curious so why not let her make up her own mind about her sexuality and stop trying to force YOUR own narrow out look on her
2007-07-12 22:20:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋