I was dating this guy for abt 3 weeks until he called me while i was on a month vacation and told me that "his ex called and told him that she's 2wks pregnant" Being that we had only been dating for 3wks I hadn't really got attached to him nor was i feeling anything special. So I broke it off with him because I didn't want to be involve with the "baby mama drama" He said he had no idea that she could have been pregnant but something told me not to believe him but I did anyway. Here's the part when i get pissed... Him and my male cuzin are close friends so when I arrived back at home, I tell my cuzin abt the situation and he clearly says that my bf n his gf never broke up, and she was 2months pregant not 2wks. And that him n her had a place together, but he moved out but still spends the nite often. I've been at home 4 a wk now and he's avoiding me, I havent seen him or talked to him because he knows I know the truth now. Should I still approach him and let him know he was full of #$%!?
2007-07-12 05:43:34 · 28 answers · asked by leshonti2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would not give him the satisfaction of thinking I cared a single bit about him. Your cousin will make sure he knows you know the real story now, I'd leave it at that. Best revenge is to act like you couldn't care less and to go about your business as if he never even existed. Let him wallow in the drama he's created for himself, knowing you don't even care.
2007-07-12 05:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. That would only amuse him. My advice is to resist the impulse to let him know your reaction. After all, he likes drama. It will get to him more if you avoid him at all costs--even by acting repulsed if forced to be face to face with the creep. Count your blessings that you figured him out in a short time before you got 'sucked in'. I pity the girl he got pregnant....but better her than you. Did your male cousin introduce you to this guy? If so, I would doubt whether that male cousin has your best interest at heart. Don't approach this guy...he's a predator that you're better off not coming in contact with. Good Luck
2007-07-12 05:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let this looser go. Stay out of contact with him. Should you get in contact with him, it just allows him yet more time to run his lines on you, with the possibility of getting you where he wants you. Face the facts here honey, if the guy lied to you in the first place, he was testing the water (so to speak) to passably see how easy you would be. What will he tell you the next time?
2007-07-12 05:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks isnt nothing to get all mad over.and im sure he knows hes full of ****.i know its the point of him lying but at least u found out in 3 weks and not 3 years.just leave it alone.if u confront him hes gonna think u really care about him and he might try to have a relationship with u again.
2007-07-12 05:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this occurs to anybody dw... i've got had a weigh down in this guy for rather much 2 years now... this is rather perplexing... the final thank you to do it is to communicate to different adult adult males extra and attempt and merely flirt with some adult adult males... distract your self with different adult adult males and yuu will quickly ignore approximately him... If he's this variety of fool he rather does not deserve you're affection. you're for sure too solid for him
2016-10-01 11:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother. You were spared any real anguish, hurt or pain, so why give it another thought. You know he's full of it and he knows you know he's full of it. I know your instincts want you to confront him to make sure he knows, but really, all that will do is feed his ego. Act as if and move on with your life. Thank God that you didn't get worse than you got. Good luck.
2007-07-12 06:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's going to have enough problems soon, just move on and thank your lucky stars you found out before you were too emotionally invested in the relationship!
(Of course, if you had the opportunity to "accidentally" drop a drink on him sometime, I'm sure the laundry bill would be worth it...)
2007-07-12 05:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said, he is avoiding you because he knows you know the truth. I wouldn't waste any more time dwelling on it. He knows he's full of it, you know he's full of it and he knows you know he's full of it. Just forget it and move on. Just be glad all the drama came out before it got serious.
2007-07-12 06:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even bothering with this jerk off. I would not lower myself to tell him anything. He played you girl. So many boys are like this. They already have a steady piece but they still want a variety. Lucky your male cousin filled you in on this lying piece of .........!
2007-07-12 05:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by CRAIG C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him.. sounds like he wants it both ways.. you and the ex, not to mention.. if you have a "feeling" that something isnt right... trust your instincts!!!!!
as for approaching him.. dont waste your time.. it probably wont matter to him anyway.
2007-07-12 05:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by one_goofy_devil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋