i want to know the qualities of a good friend. i also want to know if these guys who say are my friend really my friends. they spread rumors about me, they don't let me talk and they tease me and want me to fight. are they my friends? what are a qualities of a true friend? are all friends like this? please answer? i have not teased them or spread rumors about them. i have always helped everyone.
2007-07-12 03:08:53 · 25 answers · asked by ♠The Boss♠ 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
These people don't sound very friendly to me. Spreading rumors, fighting? These are not friends.
True friendship mean, support, and fun and honesty and good natured teasing and fun.
Anyone who wants you to do these things should be avoided. Anyone who spreads rumors about you is not a friend.
True friends stick up for each other, and defend their friends when a lie is spoken about them.
Get some new friends. Good luck with this. Really, I hope you find someone better than these people.
2007-07-12 03:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, those so called friends of yours are NOT true friends. They sound very immature to me. The qualities of a good friend: loyalty, love, honesty, someone who would never think of stabbing you in the back. I have a few select friends, and we all love one another, and they'd never think of spreading rumors about me. Sounds to me like you need to find a new group of friends. These guys are definitely immature and NOT your friends. True friends do not act like that! Good luck!
2007-07-12 03:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by PURR GIRL TORI 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not friends.
Good friends, first don't fight you....but they've got your back when you get into one.
Good friends, may tease you...but they expect the same from you in return and will always know when to back down when you had enough.
Good friends, don't spread rumors about you...they take yourside even if you are kind of wrong.
2007-07-12 03:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no they are not your friends if they are doing all that to you!! good qualities in friends can vary greatly depending on what you like...but things you always need in friendship is trust, loyalty, and respect...if you dont have these then it will go no where. now its not wrong if your friends are joking around with you and you know they are, but it crosses the line when they spread rumors about you and things like that
2007-07-12 03:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Those aren't any traits of a good friend. A friend is just someone you have fun hanging out with and talking to and you enjoy doing things together not one that treats you badly. Of course sometimes a little teasing between friends is acceptable as long as they aren't actually hurting your feelings. Choose your friends wisely don't let them choose you then let them treat you like crap.
2007-07-12 03:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they spread rumors about you and tease you, they are NOT friends.
Friends are supportive. Friends are kind. Friends are helpful. Friends want you to be happy and to succeed.
2007-07-12 03:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ruby 4ever 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They are deffinately not good friends. You need to dump them and fast. A true friend should be trust worthy and should have your back no matter what. These people are not friends at all. You can do so much better than that. Choose your friends wisely. True friends are hard to come by, but when you find them, they'll be there forever.
2007-07-12 03:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by Xindy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With Friends Like THAT Who the F@CK Needs EMEMIES!
Your a good person, a good friend, but they see you as weak, because your the good guy, you help everyone. you let everyone use and abuse your friendship, how do I know this, because I live like this, I do way to much for my friends, I give 150% and receive back about 20%, no, not fair, but I am a giving person, and I need to be needed... and I'm a caregiver... but your better off to avoid these people, No, they are not your friends...... I'm very sorry, that they treat you like this, it's sad and very frustrating....... and it does hurt... I'm a soft hearted person, with a huge loving soft heart, and it kills me that people can be so mean..... even to people that they consider their friends... the world is so messed up in so many ways!
2007-07-12 03:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by ~ANGEL~EYES~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good friends support you and don't make fun of you and they never spread rumors about you. You maybe should get yourself some new friends.
2007-07-12 03:12:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No ..they shouldn't be using you as a way to amuse themselves by spreading rumors. Friends don't do that..I'd lose them fast!
Friends are those that enjoy being around you and sharing thoughts and ideas. Those that remember birthdays and will back you up when your verbally attacked by another.
2007-07-12 03:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Swampmoth 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋