if you have, can you tell me about it?? i'm going to marry this man in a few weeks and i want to know more about sex
2007-07-12 02:39:17 · 36 answers · asked by flowers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
where does the men's private part go???
has anyone ever tried oral sex
2007-07-12 02:56:24 · update #1
Yes I have. It is the physical union between two people of opposite sex with the sole purpose of giving each other sexual pleasure. It is best experienced when there is no hindering factors such as fear.
As for your coming marriage, expect your husband to share the marriage bed with you and when that happens, your closeness will obviously result in pleasurable embrace/touch which will give rise to unexplainable inner feelings. Whatever happens thereafter will answer will question.
Do not have any fear during your first night after the wending. Just be yourself and open to your husband. Let him know that you have never had sex before so that he can handle you with tenderness, without having to rush you.
Wish you all the best in your marriage.
2007-07-12 03:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kaka M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
congratulations on your up coming wedding. If neither of you have ever experienced sex/ making love before, then it's something that you can both enjoy together for the first time. If he's done it before, then he should be gentle and put your mind at ease. The first time might not be what you expect. But please be assured it will become more natural and more passionate as you relax and enjoy. (not saying it won't be passionate on your first night though) It's such a special bond a married couple (well more commonly any couple these days).Unfortunately it's something that maybe taken to lightly in society these days. Enjoy your special day (and night!). And here's to a wonder-full life together!
2007-07-12 03:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) How old are you? 2) Are you in love with the man? If so, then all you need to know is you need to learn all of this and more from your betrothed. Back in the olden days, when girls of 13 and fourteen were marrying, they were taught to hold all questions about sex and other wifely duties for their husband. That will strengthen your bond with your husband. It also helps to build your trust. Congratulations on holding on to your virginity! Your husband will no doubt be able to show you how and where to touch him and you can be proud of him for being able to show you. Just remember, you will be his wife, not an item to be owned but the most important person in his life. Trust him to teach you and make sure you can be a good student. Good Luck!
2007-07-16 06:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by roloswife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many sources to the techniques of the physical part of sex (Karma Sutra, Joy of Sex, porno), but the emotional connection is much deeper and more profound.
When making love it is the connecting of two souls to make one wanting to give pleasure to each other.
You have a life time together and the willingness to give yourself to your husband and him to you is what makes sex profound. For the physical aspect of it I do suggest you read Joy of Sex or the Karma Sutra, keep an open mind and discuss this with your future husband.
Good luck.
2007-07-12 02:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you have not "made love'. Not a problem, if he has experience then follow his lead. If he is just as virgin as you,, then it will come natural to you,, a little bumpy at first but after a while the bumps on the road will disappear and you know perfect practice makes perfect. So don't worry,, it will all be just fine.
2007-07-12 02:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by jorge e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably didn't have sex ed in high school. Well congratulations on saving yourself. You may want to do some research before you do "it". "It" may scare you away! Do you even know what a male organ looks like? How old are you? 12!!!!
2007-07-12 04:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls have told me to take it easy. It is kind of like exercising. If you have never exercised before you might want to take it easy the first 2 weeks and gradually work out a little harder until you find out your comfort level. Ya dig!
2007-07-12 02:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Cadillac Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a mans perspective i cant tell, but if i was a woman i would say let it flow and watch a couple movies,and check out some websites like www.sexed.com,That should help
2007-07-12 02:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by Skate Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. That is a personal question with a personal answer.
Sex is one of those subjects you just have to learn on your own, and experience on your own. Don’t be afraid. If he is like any other guy, and you have not had a sexual experience, he will be very happy with that idea. Don’t be embarrassed. Just relax, it will be just fine.
2007-07-12 02:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better find out from a legal sex therapist in the clinic.
2007-07-12 02:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋