My boyfriend and I just found out that I am pregnant and everything has been cool. The other day though we came home from the beach and my roommate had let my ex into the house and he was in my bed asleep. Now my boyfriend thinks that I had him there and knew hge was there. I dont want anything to do with my ex and he does this sort of stuff eveytime I am with someone new. Help I am about to have a baby with the man I want to be with for the rest of my life and he doesnt want to be with me anymore becasue he thinks I am lying. What should I do?
2007-07-12 02:27:37 · 9 answers · asked by swinger_girl_kelley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, the first thin I would do is change my onscreen name! Swinger girl? I bet that might make him a little crazy too! If you really want to be with him and only him, you'll need to convince him that you can be trustworthy. Tell the other guy right in front of your man that you are through with him and if he comes back around, you'll be forced to get a restraining order on him. There's a baby in the midst here now, time to grow up and act responsibly. :)
2007-07-12 02:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you have your roommate talk to your boyfriend? And did you tell your boyfriend how you feel? If so, there's something else going on. He may be using this situation to break up with you. It's not logical that he would be in love with you, yet think you're lying--unless you've left something out of the story. Why would your roommate let this guy in, when you're not home? Doesn't make sense.
2007-07-12 02:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think that you should explain to your current bf how much you love him, and make him understand that you're already making a committment to him. Your ex, well he's going to keep bothering you, so if you really love your man, you should consider 1) Moving in together or 2) Moving away to a new place, that way your ex won't know where you live. As far as your roommate, well you need to tell that person that your ex is not welcome and in case this happens again, when your ex is in your house, call your bf and tell him to kick his ***!!!
2007-07-12 02:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell would your roommate let your ex in to sleep in your bed? Something doesn't sound right girl. You need to have the roommate explain to him why she did something so stupid.
2007-07-12 02:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it sounds most innocent look at it from his point of view your ex boyfriend in your bed, the good part he was with you, one incident like that should not compromise all the trust, but then couple that with your screen name and ???????????????
2007-07-12 02:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by biggmike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to have a baby and live the rest of your life with somebody who doesn't believe and trust you???
2007-07-12 02:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What diamanda said. Seriously you were with him all day right? And if you did have him there, why would you have intentionally brought your new man there? Your guy sounds like a wimpy, unlogical, idiot.
2007-07-12 02:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your roommate not to let any of your ex's in
2007-07-12 02:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by josephfine v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow the F%#@ UP. you have new concerns now
2007-07-16 00:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋