how can i stop being jealious of other women?

Question

my husband is a very outgoing guy. he would do anything to help other people and some women think that he is flirting with them. so i get on the defense about it and he says that there is nothing going on that they are just friends. now i don't mind g/fs because his best g/f is now my best friend. it is just that some girls don't think of it as friendship. what to do??????

Answer 1

You can't control how these other women think and feel. If you can honestly say you know your husband is true to you, then just be proud of the fact that you have such a wonderful man and he's all yours.

When in the presence of these other women, just stand beside your husband and slip your hand in his...smile and join in with the conversation...body language speaks volumes and these women will see he's a happily married man to a very loving woman.

Give it a go...it does work!

Answer 2

I would talk about it with him. Tell him it's making you uncomfortable. He should stop if he respects you. You're right about saying other girls could think it's flirting. Innocent flirting can be dangerous and especially to other single women. It can open up the gate for other things to happen. I would tell your husband what's acceptable to you and what's not? Make sure you're always around when these gf's are near him. You can trust him, but not them if their single.

Answer 3

You need to be comfortable with yourself and know that you are the best thing that has ever happened to him. And that if he should ever leave you, it's his loss, not yours. You can pick up and move on, no problem. If you get your mindset on this, you won't be so worried about what he is doing. :)

Answer 4

If you were secure in your relationship you would not be jealous.