My b/f's youngest sis just had a baby sunday. Great right? Yeah, but she called my b/f's exwife to be with her at the hospital and she didnt even call ME...his family say they left messages on his cel...his cel is broke. They've all called MY phone before since we LIVE together and have for the past 3.75 yrs...we missed the entire event! Then on Monday I found out they didn't call my phone cuz they didn't want ME there cuz it would make my b/f's exwife feel "uncomfortable". We've been together for almost 5 yrs. They've been divorced 8+ yrs. His family had NOTHING to do w her til 2 yrs ago when she LIED to them all about "dying of cancer". She had cervical dysplasia, had a cone biopsy done. NO cancer! But his entire family but two sisters (family of 7 kids) felt sorry for her. Tried to get us to break up so he could"move in w HER n HELP HER out instead of ME".We had a terrible time for 2 yrs of that crap, finally Oct he chose ME.The X hates him nw but his fam took her side. I'm left out
2007-07-12 02:00:07 · 5 answers · asked by Just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave them out of future events you 2 may be planning.
2007-07-12 02:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman obviously knows how to push your b/f's family's buttons. You're kinda stuck. Just make the best of the situation and be the bigger person. Be kind to everyone in his family and eventually they'll realize they were wrong.
2007-07-12 09:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by ziggyzp77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make them like you. Just live your life and don't worry about them. If they don't want you there for the birth of a baby, then you shouldn't want to be there either.
2007-07-12 09:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by boohoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably just uncomfortable with you since you're just shacking up...
2007-07-12 09:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
F*ck'm.
2007-07-12 09:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋