This question has been bothering me for quite sometime. From being on here...I noticed that some contributers want us, the LGBT Community to "change our ways" and become Straight. My Question to them is why? Why do you personally want me to be a straight man. I have tried to live in the straight world...but Felt like an actor playing a part. It got tiring.
Please answer as honestly as you can.
Nate
2007-07-12 01:36:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do you want us to be unhappy, or do you want us to be who we are and happy in our lives?
2007-07-12 01:40:08 · update #1
I Don't more girls for me!
2007-07-12 01:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
If I was younger, I'd say what I said when I saw an attractive gay man in those days: what a waste! A straight woman simply wants as many men as possible to be available to her. Forget that very few of them will be anyway, for whatever reason. It's the fantasy she does not want disturbed.
But the main reason people urge you to change is their religious conviction that homosexuality is a mortal sin. Obviously, there is a certain unrealistic quality to this, but have you noticed how many other things they consider to be mortal sins? Just answer them as politely as you can, and try to stay away from them. If they insist on violating your privacy, you may need to be rude in order to tell them how rude they are being.
2007-07-12 08:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93 7 · 6⤊ 3⤋
I want you to be happy, whatever you decide is best for you nate. Personally I love my women and want to be with women. As you can see I love being gay!
And I dont know if anyone else noticed but none of the straight people that always talked sh** saying to repent and stuff came on here to answer this question...sounds to me they dont know that answer themselves they just want to continue to preach and promote their hate
2007-07-12 11:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by Agent_m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My sister is gay, and i asked her why. and she said she knew she was gay when she hit pubity, she is 40 now. There has been a study on homosexuals that the chemical imbalance when a fetus is being tranformed. some have more female hormones then others and some have more male hormones then others. Gay guys who knew he was gay from the beginning would most likely have more female hormones then the average male, as well as lesbians whom will have more male hormones then the average women. This is just what i saw on TV. If you are gay its all good, be happy, be marry and enjoy life to the fullest.
2007-07-12 09:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I agree with most on here-God made you the way he did and he makes no mistakes so he wasn't mistaken by making you gay. You should tell the straight folks to change their ways first.
2007-07-12 09:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by wellnotright 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should be who you are. If your gay, your gay. I think it is awesome that you are comfortable with your sexuality. Anyone who tells you otherwise on here should be kicked off. This is a place for comfort not asking you to change your ways. I love that you are openly gay. No one should try to change that.
2007-07-12 10:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there will always be those who believe that their way is the only way, pay them no attention and just do what will make you feel complete and happy
2007-07-16 06:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its for yourself to answer and no one else. they can only give you their views and experience. ultilately, its you who have to decide and the reasons you know only to yourself.
do what you want and like and what your heart desires. thnk to wrads the distant future to your need sand wants. the answer is there?
2007-07-12 09:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lucy L 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, i am ok with you being gay....since i am gay myself...lol, i know, you were looking for the weirdos to answers....sorry....please carry on!
2007-07-12 09:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by Lil_bit_witty 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are asking for a thoughtful, lucid answer. You will not get it from them! They are not using their brains. They are just spouting the stupid drivel they hear from the pulpit. NO thought has gone into the subject!!!
2007-07-12 08:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by marie 7 · 6⤊ 3⤋
I don't want you to be straight.
Keep this in mind, people may WANT you to be a lot of things, be yourself, and you can NEVER go wrong.
2007-07-12 09:12:37 · answer #11 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋