I'm straight but yesterday I still had bisexual thoughts and I'm 19. I was thinking to buy female underwear and a pink top. why am I like this? but the true reason why I'm straight is because I'm catholic. so if God created us, why He made people confused about their sexuality? I had a big dream to change my gender and be a female. I think if I would be living on my own, I would wear female clothes, doing female things, I even polished my nails once.
why I'm so confused when I like being a straight guy and I'm in love with girls? but there is one thing: I love females. so I want to be a female myself?
2007-07-12 01:32:00 · 11 answers · asked by . 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Excuse me.
God did not/does not make people confused about their sexuality. Satan does. Please don't fall into his trap.
Besides, males that try to conform to the females distinguishing qualities looks quiet rediculous (you guys just can't pull it off). Give it up.
2007-07-18 13:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A majority of crossdressers are hetrosexual, so don't worry about it. You can still be straight and enjoy crossdressing. Crossdressing has less to do with sexuality, and is more about being comfortable in one's own skin. It isn't much different that me being the most comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt or a flannel. I can wear a dress and heels if I absolutely HAVE to, say for a job interview, but you can be sure that as soon as I can, I get that thing back in the closet. The only reason it doesn't raise eyebrows is because it's socially acceptable now. Fifty years ago, that was not the case.
You are young and just exploring yourself to learn who you are. This is a good thing. I am not Catholic, so I can't really give you any advice along those lines, but regardless of what all the rules and regulations are, God knows you and loves you exactly as you are, so don't deny yourself.
2007-07-18 10:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by C J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being confused about your sexuality, though it might be a problem for you to figure out what you want to do, it isn't really a problem. You are who you are, it's the way the God created you. None of us on this earth are perfect, it's ok if you want to be a girl, that's a part of you.
the mind is confusing so i can't answer why you want to be a woman, but it sounds like something that is more than just trying something out. Don't be ashamed of the way you are, people need to except that, and if you truly want to be a girl, be that, because there is no right and wrong in how a person should be
good luck
2007-07-12 01:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by makeyourselfsick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to yourself. Seriously ask yourself these questions. Wait for an answer and go with it. If you makde a mistake so what! Be the best person you can be and all the other stuff will supernaturally fall in place. Best to ya!
2007-07-12 01:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by boness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you are a girl trapped in a boys body so act on your feelings its o.k. i have lots of cross dressing friends and some say they felt the same way that you feel before. they dress like women everyday except when they are at work. so do you and be happy.
2007-07-18 19:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by grandma sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Catholic, born and raised, but I am also gay. Do not let your religion tell you what you should be. If you feel you are gay, then you are gay. If you think you want to have a sex change, that is what you feel
2007-07-12 03:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make you bi or gay...I see that you're confused. Dressing like a female makes you a CD if you want to be a woman that would make you a transsexual. That has nothing to do with you sexual identity.
2007-07-12 01:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey, sounds like you want to cross dress and that has nothing to do with orientation. Most cross dressers are heterosexual males.
2007-07-18 19:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by gone fishing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you are so not straight. And nothing good ever came out of Catholicism.
2007-07-12 01:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by QforU For Da Ben Dan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
did you choose to be catholic or were you born that way?
2007-07-19 00:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋