i totaly dont care because i knew it even befor she told me but one of are friends that she told was talkin to me one time and was like im scared to sleep by her now
i got mad and was like why would she do anything to you shes your friend she wouldnt go against your will and she was like shes bi and i was like just because shes bi she doesnt me she'd like rape or somthin while your sleepin
and then she got mad because i said that and now she wont talk to me
i still wanna be her friend but it seemed so rude of her to say that
2007-07-11 23:05:17 · 11 answers · asked by shala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You stood up for what you believe in and don't allow someone even though she was one of ya friends to stand in the way of what u believe in. You spoke ya mind and thats all you can do. We need more people like you. Ya friend should be the one apologizing for her actions.
2007-07-11 23:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by fjchika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does, i remember back in high school my friend told me he was bi, at first i thought he was joking because sometimes he does joke about some stuff but he wasnt, i dont care if my friends are gay or bi. if thats the way they want to be so be it . tell your friend if she cant deal with it dont be around, some people are so homaphobic these day, it bugs the hell out of me when people are like that. the way i say is get this friend and your bi friend to talk about this. its not like when they sleep next to each other the bi friend is gonna start feeling her up or anything, she just likes both sex plus she wouldnt do anything as she is her friend
2007-07-11 23:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to appreciate that sexual orientation isn't comparable to polyamorous relationships. purely through fact you're bi does not mean you have intercourse with each and every thing that strikes. It purely skill that for you, sexual attraction isn't constrained by making use of gender. What you do with that attraction is an entire diverse difficulty. there is somewhat a distinction between attraction and action. as an occasion in words he might understand: Say a guy is involved in tall women, and he is going out with a tall women and springs to a decision to be truthful; no project you assert. What if that guy is involved in tall AND short women, and he is going out with a tall lady; does that mean he would be incapable of being truthful through fact she isn't short??? No. it rather is all a count of motivation and self-discipline. needless to say, he is going to be insecure and shaken approximately this, exceedingly if he found out it by using facebook!! I advise a severe refer to locate how he feels...
2016-12-14 06:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, it was the truth. yeah maybe you could have said it in a nicer way but that still isnt right. just because someone is bi/gay/lesbian doesnt mean theyre going to rape everyone of the same sex that sleeps next to them. you should just kind of apologize for being a little snappy at her but still explain to her how its messed up of her to say that.
2007-07-11 23:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are ignorant to what really goes on with bisexual people. I have never been bi, but I know that if a person is bi, they are not going to attack you if you tell them that you are not interested. Just tell your friend that you are not angry with her, but you were trying to explain that she had nothing to worry about.
2007-07-11 23:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have discovered one of the great injustices of the modern world-as a straight guy I don't fancy every woman-as a gay guy I don't fancy every bloke; as a lesbian I don't fancy every woman and as a bi I don't fancy every person I see-your "friend" needs to grow up-stay true to the one who trusted you in the first place.
2007-07-11 23:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a bit narrow minded to me.
She has taken the time to tell people she should be respected for it and trusted, i know some friends who are gay and i respect that as long as they respect the fact i'm not everyone is happy.
2007-07-11 23:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Edward M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was very rude of her to say that, she had no right to say that and it is very egotistical of her to assume that just because your friend is bi that she is going to try something.
2007-07-11 23:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by ffemt1280 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi as inin bisexual
2007-07-11 23:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by shum s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her sorry if you offended her,
and ask if she wants to talk about it.
2007-07-11 23:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋