All have a right to eat as per choice. Why husbands not getting as per need, as per taste? Ladies to children: Tell your need, get it. She to husband: 'Do NOT express. I can not cook for you. Eat what is given.' This is rape by ladies. Why ladies are bad, selfish?
2007-07-11 22:30:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yaar Mittal Saheb aap bohat pareshan ho,batao kaya khanna pasad karo gae main aap ko apne ghar main dawat daatta hoan. Jo aap bolo gae wohi aap ke liya pesh kaar degaa. Aab is bara mai yahoo main logo ko puchna band karo. Aab aap ki patni aap ko wo saab nahi deetti jo aap pasand karte ho is main aab kuch nahi kiya jaa saakta,shadi ke itne saal baad patnio ka yahi haal hota hai,na to un ko chodda ja sakta hai na jhalla ja sakta hai,aab to chitta main he chutkara mila to mila nehi to khaya jao jo mil raha hai begam sahiba ke or se nahi to bhooka rehna padega.
2007-07-12 03:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Hey man! If that is a sample of your wife's behaviour towards you, don't blame wives at large. Indeed everyone has a right to eat the food he/she likes except the ones that are harmful. A lot of married women indeed believe that the way to their husbands' hearts is through their stomachs. And they never fail to prepare all the delicacies that their husbands love to eat. Often some of their husbands' favourites are opposite to what the wives love themselves. Even then they go about preparing their husbands' choice with scant regard to their own likes and dislikes. It is expected that husbands should reciprocate and care for their wives' favourites too. If you suspect that, that is the probable reason for your wife's outbursts, have a heart and ask her what she would love to eat. That could well bring about the desired result for you.
2007-07-12 07:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy became right into a vegetable as in subconscious / in a coma, i could ought to look into some form of an association to place him able that ought to preserve him. His mothers and dads could be a ingredient of the alternative-making technique. If it got here to making a call whether or to no longer "pull the plug", it may all matter on many components that are unique to each and each project. In any adventure, i could ought to ultimately pass on and stay my existence, rather if there became into an rather little probability that this person could be "coming back". in case you advise that the guy could merely be paralyzed (yet conscious), it can be a diverse tale, in spite of the actuality that lots could nevertheless matter on the situations, what variety of medical care we'd be waiting to get, etc. this is totally possible that i does not be waiting to undergo such project, even with my ultimate intentions. If I felt our relationship became into deteriorating previous fix, i could ought to honestly say i could evaluate leaving, even though it does not be person-friendly to make this call. this is too perplexing to foretell how the dynamics of a relationship could exchange below such extreme situations. I additionally do no longer comprehend how having young ones could influence the alternative, as i'm no longer a determine.
2016-10-01 10:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by whitemarsh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol... your question made my day. I find more of comedy in trajedy because that is the only fodder i have. ;)
Be nice to your wife. Give her warmth. Appreciate her and value her for her efforts. Kitchen work is indeed boring to women because they don't get that financial and emotional benefit as they would by engaging in an economic activity.
"For a birthday gift, I asked my wife to cook something nice for me. "
Nonetheless we would be labeled male chauvinist pigs. Learn to cook yourself, have already started because my mom has spoiled me by feeding good food and i can't lower my standards. Neither engaging a cook would help as they have to be given proper instructions and without a person in charge knowing what has to be done that would not be possible.
All the best, i am glad am not alone
2007-07-14 01:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by bebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is definitely something wrong & If you are serious,then ask her not to cook for you. Cook yourself for you in her presence. Things like Maggi noodles are very easy to cook in few minutes and if you cannot do this even then take any damn thing in any damn hotel in your area and if that also you cannot do ,take bread with Amul butter & Milk and bananas at home but do not depend upon food cooked by her till she realizes and starts asking for your choice of food atleast on some occassions .
2007-07-12 06:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by chandraprakash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really i think ur mean to ur wife. If ur so much a foodie ask her once in a while to cook ur favourite. Better talk to her in a nice way. Dont get angry tell her that u too would love to have a dish of ur choice. She would listen to u or atleast u will know what the problem is. Then try to solve it. One thing since she cooks what ur children like it is kind of hard for her trust me. So talk to her and ask her to make ur fav. dish atleast once a week.
2007-07-11 22:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anastasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem 1 -you are a poor, spoilt indian man who was mollycoddled by his doting mum and never felt the need to cook.
Solution: learn to cook what you like to eat
problem 2 - Don't you think your wife is also a hardworking woman slaving all day*
poor unfortunate guy... nobody told you that arranged marriages are vERY thorny!
2007-07-12 03:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by krishna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a super taster. Your taste needs are unmatched to her cooking talents. What to do if she is fed up with your abnormal pallette. So she took the extreme step of "take it or leave it". So simple, when the snake has no where to go, it will bite back.:D
My wife is not like that she will come to ask me first what I want, then only she start cooking because I used to say to her whatever you are making, that is delicious. :P
2007-07-11 22:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Surettan S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you share life, share the responsibilities as well as the daily jobs. YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU WANT. If NOT, who prevents you from cooking yourself!
Good Luck!
2007-07-11 22:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because she is more talented than you , so you should take the food of her choice , and not yours . do not involve the word love here please , do not abuse love. she is more talented than you simply accept it . you are not able to manage the family problems. sorry i did not mean to hurt you , but one has to accept the hard truth . if you go for an interview to get the work of your own choice , if you are not able to get it ,then what will you say they are selfish ..............but i will say you are not elegible for that ...............
Love is beyond all these , mind talent does not play any role in love . pyar hota to o aap se question na karti balki poonchi ki aapki pasand kya hai " pyar to aap bhi nahin karte ho nahin to jo khilatin o kha lete
2007-07-12 00:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by KrishanRam(Jitendra k) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ramen noodles is the direction you're headed. Shut up and thank her for working hard to feed you in the first place.
2007-07-11 22:35:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋