How many other people think that kids are having sex too early these days. There are many kids 13 yo having sex. What age do you think they should wait to? Why do you think they are doing it so soon?
2007-07-11 22:04:55 · 20 answers · asked by darth72au 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that they are.. and i am one of them.. i am 14 still a virgin but i have learned from my older brother.. from their mistakes.. before i do do that i am making sure i am on the pill and have my own apt. and money.. lol that way just in case i do get pregnant i can support a baby and it would have a good life.. most of the People in my grade are still virgins tho.. at least i think...and my sister who is like 23 still a virgin and i have this guy who i like who teases me saying that i am going to be like my sister.. but i just say to him at least i would be smart about it.. and i would have a nice job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-11 22:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by jenny 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You could be the best parent in this world and your kid will probably will still want to have sex at those ages. The problem is that with the TV shows, the media, magazines, movies, and music now-a-days promoting the perfect body type and painting this awesome picture of how awesome sex is I'm not surprised that these kids want to have sex. Even if you sensor the kids on all these things there are going to be kids at school who talk about it and unfortunately have done the "deed" and pressure other kids into doing it. Maybe not directly but because they have done it other kids will want to see what's up with it. With schools also trying to push the whole not having sex thing it's actually back firing on them. Most teenagers will want to do the opposite of what their teachers and parents think is wrong. They are rebels. Also a teenage mind is not at the reasoning stage yet so they may no the consequence of their actions but they really don't care. They have the I'm young and I can do what I want mentality, which they will eventually mature and become responsible adults. They may regret doing it later on... maybe not. Should we still hold them responsible for their actions... Absolutely. If you don't then they will think that they can get away with anything.
2016-05-20 05:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, yes they are. My fear is that these kids will end up with children before they are even adults, and could possibly end up with HIV or herpes from not using protection.
I don't think that there is a certain age to begin having se#. It really depends on the person. I would certainly not suggest even thinking about it prior to 16 or 17 years of age. The longer they wait, the more responsible and knowledgeable about life they will be.
I believe that the reason they are having se# so young is twofold. First they are not getting the love and attention that they need from their parents. They use se# to get that love and attention. Secondly, the moral character of a person is not stressed as much as it should be. So many kids are being raised by parents that have no moral character, or they have not taught their children about the importance of having morals.
2007-07-11 22:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Definitely! Kids are growing up WAY too quickly now days and I think it's a crying shame! - I don't really care what other people choose to do with their lives to tell you the truth... but there is something about it that I just think is very wrong - I guess I find it disappointing that people would choose to rush through certain stages of life....particularly childhood - because it's over with so quickly anyway - it should be a time that's enjoyed and cherished - so that as an adult you can look back and remember how innocent you once were. That's just my opinion though... each to their own I guess.
2007-07-11 22:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by *lostdownhere* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More kids are having sex younger... at least the media has focused more on this trend. However, the average age of marriage has gone UP. The average age of first intercourse, I believe, is still 17... not that different from generations ago (when people were 'steady' or engaged/married around this age).
Oral sex, though, has become more prevalent with younger teens (13-15 year olds), as it is (wrongly) perceived to be less risky and there is no risk of pregnancy or sacrificing virginity (in the strictest sense).
2007-07-11 22:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by adverseanatomy 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, historically... our great great grandparents marry at the early age at the range of 9 - 15. Its not a problem during that time because they are bonded in MARRIAGE.
But nowadays, people tend to do FREE sex, and yeah i think to have a free sex at the age of 10 or 13 is waaaayyyy tooooo yooounngggg!!!
It wont bring any good to them cause they are fragile to make mistakes and to get the sexual desease if they dont take a careful action.
I dont think young kids should have sex without marriage since they will lost the meanin gof true sex. They will make themselves becomes soo cheaap and not to forget its sinful too.
i think the best age to have sex is after school and when u have married!!
Its kind of pity to see kids nowadays doesnt know who their real father is due to their mother's lust and its a pity to see the single mother have to reaise their kids alone cause she slept with irresponsible daddy.
God put adultery as sinned because its gave no benefits to human. Its only brings mental, spiritual, family and physical deseases.
2007-07-11 22:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by sweetzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is there from the time memorial which we can see in the mythological stories and history through ou the world and they are very rare. Now a days also it is a rare phenomena but due to the wide coverage of media and unneccessary interpretation, creating unwanted awareness regarding the subject. And the possible age of having sex is around 7 to 9 years, which should not be encouraged.
2007-07-11 22:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by venkatadhri y 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Age 13 is too young to understand the consequences of having sex. At this age, the body starts to grown up and mentality is not stable. And it is easy for them to be hurt. They should wait.
2007-07-11 22:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by tfr_ftu 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Religiously, they should wait until they're married. Yes, kids are having sex too young. I think it's because with the pill and condoms, they can have sex and then hide the fact that they did.
2007-07-12 02:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Evil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they should keep themselves far from that desire before marriage....if most kids are going to have sex before marriage, soon there won't be families....most children are going to have single moms and this screws everything up....why think of all these at school age....that's the age u study to get a bright future...not find partners....be discplined...most of today 's ideas are bloody foolish and they want respect for it...parents are giving their children too much of freedom...and the child doesn't know the right way and fall to all these lusts....sex education is behind all these...its a culprit....why teach kids about sex ?
teens should keep this in mind,
How can a young man keep his way pure ?
By keeping it according to God's Word.
So, all you teens out there read the Holy Bible (don't join any church, they will just spoil you more) and grow as a righteous person....stop thinking of self-esteem or self-confidence...believe in Jesus Christ !!! if u don't, you will find yourselves in hell, in burning lake of sulphur.....don't think hell's fire is just symbolic, it literal fire and its very hot !!!
i think all porn should be illegal, wheter it is child or not...get rid of it....if kids these days are gone crazy with/about sex...they will stop learning...how are they gonna manage the country ?...think of the future....
its not sin to wear sexy clothes or masturbate but guys don't be lustful and keep thinking of girls, their body and masturbate thinking of girls, treat all younger girls like your sisters...
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2007-07-11 23:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋