here they are veryy messy and dont care at all about their weigth looks or personal hygean. so they dont really buy stuff that helps. like they buy really fattening foods and they dont buy no skin care or any of that stuff. i have no money to buy that stuff and there nio way of me earning that to buy what i need. i basically need tro move and get a fresh start but am too young. what d i do? <3
2007-07-11 20:28:39 · 9 answers · asked by britbrit123 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
They're messy, you say? And they don't buy the stuff you want?
Try offering to clean up in exchange for money. If you have the money, then you can buy things yourself until you're old enough to strike out on your own.
2007-07-11 20:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go moving out with out any means of supporting your self. Could you put up with it for a couple of years more? If so I suggest you just tuff it out until you have the opportunity to leave. Get your self a part time job but also ensure you complete your studies. Eduction is everything these days and you'll be up against alot of competition when you begin wanting to start a Career in the future. If you don't you end up reliant on other people or stuck in a go no where situation. I have a couple of friends who left home early for a variety fo reasons who did not get jobs or finish their schooling and they are in the same dead end jobs now as they were 5 years ago and can't get any better ones because they have no skills.
think very seriously before leaving home. Is the situation so awful that you must leave or are you being a bit impulsive and could hold on for a bit?
2007-07-12 03:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mention your age or whether your in school, so I don't really know what your situation is like. But when reading your question, the first thing that popped into my mind was that you might be able to join up with some kind of volunteer program where you would be able to donate your time to a worthy cause in exchange for living arrangements, expenses, etc. One of my co-workers will be moving to North Carolina in late August to work with Habitat for Humanity. Apparently they are going to provide housing, help her pay her living expenses and give her a $5,000 tuition stipend at the end of her year of service. This may not interest you / might not be possible for you at the current time, but it's something to keep in mind. Do some research and maybe you can find other similar programs. It would be a great way to turn a negative experience into a very positive one!
2007-07-12 03:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by bookish_bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can stay with a friend if you want to move out?
and if you are 16 you can try to get a job and buy yourself stuff...
That or you can ask to do chores at home for money
Hang in there &good luck!!
2007-07-12 03:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by crystal. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Britbrit123,
Are they you're family? Well, if they are.. family comes first, and you need to love them either way. Try talking to them into it. Soon you'll be moving out with a lot of money, but all you can do is be with your family, and enjoy how it is.
Take care.
2007-07-12 03:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Its alright 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your 16 or older go to a friends and if your 16 and under do sumthing really bad u know lol
2007-07-12 03:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by wow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a trusted adult friend in the area you can try talking to them about your concerns as well.
2007-07-12 03:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by sokokl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out. There's nothing you can do except wait. Lots of people hate their family.
2007-07-12 03:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good example to them...refuse unhealthy food, keep up your own good hygene, etc....
2007-07-12 03:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by RED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋