I met this guy and we will finally meet each other face to face this weekend. He is really sweet and nice. He showed me some picture today and he is ok looking but nothing I think I am physically attracted to. Can I learn to like him and not look so much as to how he looks. He is not ugly at all but he's ok. Am I being picky? Its ok to say yes if you really feel that way but please tell me why and what would you do! Thanks
2007-07-11 20:26:23 · 11 answers · asked by situated 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, you're too hung up on looks.
Go for sweet on the inside not just on the outside.
What you like for physical traits you'll notice will constantly change, along with peoples appearances over time. What you want on the inside (how someone makes you feel) remains pretty much the same as time goes by. Give the OK looking guy a chance.
2007-07-12 07:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by kadisciples 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you meet him. Sometimes you can be really attracted to someone in person that you wouldnt take a second look at in a picture.
If there is absolutely no chemistry when you meet him then move on. Otherwise you will probably meet someone you are attracted to later and will either cheat or wish you could.
Attraction isn't everything but it is something.
2007-07-12 03:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with him in person. You are being too picky if you are basing decisions on whether a picture makes him look physically attractive.
What about the way he moves, his confidence in his body, the way he speaks or the way he uses his hands? Those are things you're going to have to live with. We all end up ugly in the end. The beauty of youth is transitory.
2007-07-12 03:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by anotherbsdparent 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOPE !!! not at all !! if you are not yet ready to take it to some fully physical level !?! I used fully because only a foolosh person would go sOo far or to a certain point or level before you know with atleast a medium amount of certainty that all would be safe to go sOo far !!sure the water look nice/clear!?! But how well can you see those fragments of glass at the bottom? before you might atleast try to investigate first!?! you might even find things that it might be best to practice caution of before entering the water !?!<"KEEP ON THE WATCH">~!!
2007-07-12 03:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction doesn't always happen at first sight. Get to know him in person and you might be surprised. After all, there must be something about his personality for you to want to meet him in the first place.
2007-07-12 05:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a relationship shouldn't really be placed on attraction. Yes it is important to be attracted to him but think:
Would you rather have a really cute guy who is mean.
Or an OK guy who is nice?
Course I'm only 12.
2007-07-12 03:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by AnimalLover 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can become attracted to him if he treats you right. This is the difference between infatuation and a real love.
2007-07-12 04:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by **Llola** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute, you say you have met this guy then in the SAME sentence you say you will meet him this weekend...so which is it have you met him or not?
2007-07-12 03:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your being picky. Go with what you know and feel. If its not right move on
2007-07-12 03:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by curious6710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the poor fool know that you just want to be friends. Move on.
2007-07-12 04:32:48 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋