im in love with my boyfriend-- IN LOVE, wev been going out for about a year now, id do anything for him and i couldnt possibly be happier. but lately i find myself stepping into a depression because im starting to have urges to cheat on him but then i feel horrible about it
how can i make these feelings go away while being faithful? someone please help
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2007-07-11 19:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
okay heres something to try just be careful wit it!!! when and if you guys have sex image hes someone else and after a while you shouldnt feel the urge anymore.
the main reason wome cheat is because they need some other emotional connection with someone else. so also try to find out what is giving you the urge to cheat on him and then you might help the problem.
2007-07-11 19:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Rissa B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are not ready for a boyfriend. If you have urges to cheat then you must have an insecurity problem. You probably just want to know that men find you attractive and feel needed. So sad because you have to be happy with yourself and be confident with the person you are. I've been married for almost 9 yrs and I know I'm still very attractive even after 3 kids but I don't need compliments or anything else from other men, my husband is plenty for me. We have our ups and down but I would never ever think of cheating.
2007-07-12 02:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make these feelings go away".
You could always see your GP and ask to be put on anti-depressants until your "depression" goes away and then maybe you won't have these urges to cheat!
I'm in a long distance relationship at the moment, so I know about those "urges" but it's due to lack of sex unfortunately.
Now that I think about it, are you and your boyfriend having enough sex? Sometimes lack of sex can cause someone to want "more sex" or if he's not doing it for you to want sex from someone else...
2007-07-12 03:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by ƒαℓℓëñ αñGëℓ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should maybe some therapy sessions or you could just hold back and keep remembering that you love someone very much and only want to be with that person.
Or you maybe need to get out there a little more and just tell him that you need to try new things because maybe after all he really isn't the one for you!
2007-07-12 03:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything when you are away from your boyfriend that you wouldn't right in front of his face, you never know who is watching. Maybe you have clinical depression go see your MD or a counselor of some sort they may be able to help.
2007-07-12 03:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to spice up your relationship. If he is away from home, have phone se# with him, or take care of yourself using his picture to spark your imagination. If he is at home, you may just need to put some excitement back into the relationship. Try some new things, romantic interludes, etc...
2007-07-12 02:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are to the point you want to cheat on him, leave him first atleast.Perhaps you could do a little more in the bedroom to make him more willing also.
2007-07-12 04:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by malice02111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will forget it in two months. let the feeling go. you must promise not to cheating him again.
2007-07-12 03:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by miraclebeliever99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not in love
2007-07-12 02:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jonathan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋