do you think he will really do it?
2007-07-11 19:02:54 · 8 answers · asked by purpledog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he has said it more then once to me. and then he says he won't kill me he will just kill my family so i'm alone and have no one.
2007-07-11 19:14:57 · update #1
he never hit me,he does not control the money i do, he has changed a litttle about letting me go places. i just found a goodfriend from when i was younger i think hes joulous of him. and i want to leave him. but afarid too.
2007-07-12 02:47:51 · update #2
When someone make a threat like that to you, you better take action. It's better to be safe then sorry. If he does kill your family first, you will feel regret and unable to forgive yourself for the rest of your life. If he have the guts to tell you that and laugh it off like it's only a joke, that's nothing funny about that at all. You need to start documenting when and what time he made that threat. Recorded if you can. Hand the evidences to the police so they are aware of it. I'm sure the police will put you and your family under protection. Don't forget to keep a copy for yourself and a copy to a trusted friend that your husband doesn't know. If anything shoud happen in the near future, at least you have proof.
Do you see those horrible crime scenes at school where students made a threat that didn't sound like a threat, and nobody thought that he/she was serious? Same thing with your husband. There are always safe house that you find out through counseling services for FREE of charge. You'll woudn't want to have a marriage with someone who's constantly thinking about killing you and your family. You need to fight back too and don't let it be too late for you, unlike other women who died in their husband's hand.
2007-07-11 19:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Cava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a victim of spousal abuse I find there is nothing funny about his "joke". Does he have any other signs of domestic violence? Has he ever hit you? Does he control your life to the point of isolating you from friends and family? Does he control the finances? Do you have to account for all money, milage, and time spent away from him? Most of all....do you feel that you are in danger? Check the phone book for listings of shelters for women in your situation. There is help available. I'm not going to tell you what to do because I don't know all the facts of your situation but I will tell you to trust your heart. Every woman deserves to be safe and you have the right to make sure you and your family are safe. If you do leave be sure to tell your family what he said and to be careful.
2007-07-11 19:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by Dee S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, get a lawyer and tell him about the threats. Get a restraining order. My guess is he's a coward, but just in case warn your family. Don't stay with this manipulative child.
2007-07-11 19:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's dramatic. He probably wants to intimidate you, likely he doesn't have the intestinal fortitude to do something like that. But, why should you listen to it, tell you think you might put him to that test and let him know you are thinking about leaving him. See if he really does have ba**s.
2007-07-11 21:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, NO! That isn't something someone would say even as a joke.
2007-07-11 19:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it's funny mabe to him. but not so funny when his hands are around my neck tossing me around the house like a ragdoll. i take those comments seriously now.
2007-07-11 19:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take it as a joke. Please take it as a threat and do what you can with law enforcement to protect yourself.
2007-07-11 19:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it barks like a dog, looks like a dog, and smells like a dog....then________________________________! (<---- now u fill in the rest!)
2007-07-11 19:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋