Men, what would be your ideal date scenario?

Question

Yes I realize this is not dating & singles.
I want to know from our men here, how do you feel.

Now we all know that often, dates are made to be female friendly so that you can reach whatever goal you may have.
But lets say this time....its all you....we play by your rules, you decide everything down to the last detail.
Who will pay ?
where will you go?
what will you do?
will there be sex ?
will she stay the night, or leave?
will you call her, or do you expect her to call you?
Your ideal perfect date....lets see whatcha got ???

very nice answers you guys.

oh.... Mr. Mantastic....the first date fairy? bwahahaa
Um....you seem a lil hostile, I date gentlemen. Lemme explain to you what you apparently did'nt understand....
In my experience and that of my girlfriends, I would say that "often" and especially on the first date...men kinda go all out with the manners, and try to impress, often they do what they think the lady will really enjoy. I was wondering...what men REALLY want to do....if they could skip the formalities, would they? if she would pay, do they like that? Just trying to get a feel for what men really like. Understand that those of us that frequent this category here a lot of complaining about how its always all about "her" on the date, its unbalanced, its unfair, etc etc.
You apparently are one of the lucky ones, who has things going well for him in the dating scene. But dial your tone back a bit darlin'....unless youre TRYING to make me go Italian! lol

And see ladies.... Ashbringer has a heart and soul....nice answer.

Skumpsfsklub: alright then.....yes, indeed that is literally a scenario...bravo!

In all fairness...I will say Mantastic's got this dating thing down. I actually just this minute caught the last paragraph....
hhmm.....
well then ....

Answer 1

Dating as such isn't my thing--but I do have an 'ideal scenario.'

I'm sitting in a Denny's, late at night, having a cup of coffee and a plate of french fries, heavily doused with Tabasco sauce, and lightly salted. A gaggle of youngish women--let's say ranging from 19 to 40, perhaps a cluster of women from the local college, including freshmen, upper division students, grad students and a couple of professors out on a lark--bursts on the scene, temporarily upstaging the transvestites and the raging queens, who (customarily) squabble over ownership of The Big Corner Booth.

Unable to find a booth large enough to accommodate their whole party, they settle into a couple of booths directly behind me, as I sit at the counter. I can hear their conversations in bits and pieces. It's a wide-ranging collection of subjects that I note with only half an ear, but I attend sharply and spin on my stool when one discussion turns to 'games.' I know games pretty well.

"Excuse me," I say, "But I must comment here. That is bad theory."

From that rude intrusion, the evening progresses. I pass from 'interloper,' to 'whacky old geezer,' to 'acknowledged peer,' and I am subsequently invited to play cards with the seven of them. We gobble up our french fries and go.

Cards fall, and wine is drunk. The bottles are opened and drained, and soon we're all playing a very loose game in a rather small space. It's a warm evening, and garments are being shed--not by me, of course; I'm not so forward as all that, despite that I drop eaves and jump into conversations I didn't start. But my discomfort is evident, and I am urged to be comfortable.

By degrees, the tension of the game (bridge, if that matters to you) metamorphoses into erotic tension. Some of the women are gauging me again (having been stung by my play, they must consider that their first, rather dismissive, evaluation was off the mark, and that I might have . . . value in a steamier context). And some of the women are gauging their original companions. The air is thick with the scent of honeyed brine.

Ah, yes, there are Sapphics here, I notice. And they seem to be AGGRESSIVE Sapphics. Except for these three, who are doing strange things to my legs under the table.

Play continues, but it is no longer limited to the slap of pasteboard on formica. I lose track of my socks, my shirt, and my trousers. My briefs are orbiting on the blades of the ceiling fan.

I return to my rented cottage three days later. My cat is very annoyed, but mollified somewhat by an entire can of sockeye salmon.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

First date?

We go some place casual, we meet there, we have a few drinks and talk and get to know each other. Maybe we're there 10 minutes and maybe we're there for several hours (depends how it's going). We both pay our own tab. We leave. If I'm still interested I call her and vice-versa.

Best Case: Her phone or my phone rings in the next 24 hours and we live happily ever after.

Worst Case: She's never some girl I had an awful first date with. If anything, she's an interesting woman I once talked with over a few drinks.

No one is more sick of BS relationship/dating games than I am.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Ok so all the rules are set by me for my perfect date. Well, for 1 ill pay the cost of any thing that cost.
2 We will go to the beach and sight see and walk on the beach. then we will go check out light houses. then go to my place for dinner that i will cook heheheeh i am a x-chef after all so i got a advantage there. Then we will cuddle on the sofa and watch a move that she will pic out.
3 sex..........I can Waite i want it to be after we have been together for a wile and for it to just happen naturally.
4 she can go home ill take her but that will change in tI'me and we im sure will want to wake up to one another.
she should call me as much as i call her, if she don't then she probably wont really want to continue to date any ways and will say so at some point.
you have to realize that I'm assuming that we are past the first meeting stage though.

Answer 6

Well, I think one person treats the other person, doesn't matter who, as long as the favor is returned (she buys for me later) for approximately the same cost.

We'd start off with me picking her up. I'm early by a few minuets, because it's polite, and she's already ready already. Since we're going to a public place, she wears short-shorts which show her tanned thighs, and a halter that shows much cleavage. She's doing enough to bring attention to her (and me) but not enough to look skanky. No waiting around, BAM, we leave. We go to watch a baseball game at a stadium, and she knows what she's watching. She even corrects a random, wrong off-the-wall statistic by some drunk guy, who gets heckled by his friends.

"No, Andres Galarraga was the last NL batter to lead the majors in hits."

Afterwards, we go to a bar, not a club, and she drinks beer (not light, but a nut ale or stout), eats a burger (rare) and leaves my entire plate, competely different from her meal, alone. She doesn't try to sample my food and she sticks to what she ordered.

Of COURSE we have sex, and it's mind-blowing. She's not shy and we have fun. She falls asleep and starts snoring as I roll over to go to bed. Luckily, she doesn't need to fall asleep in my arms, and our ankles touching is enough contact.

I'd feed her the next morning and send her on her way. Of COURSE I call her. She drinks beer, likes baseball, eats her food, likes sex.

Basically, we're looking for a guy, but with boobs.

Answer 7

The ideal scenario probably doesn't involve the where, what, or how of the date, but most importantly the appreciation for each other's presence and not be taken for granted.

Answer 8

To answer your questions one by one:
I will pay
We will go to a small inn or hotel out in the country some place far away from the bustle of the city.
Sightseeing, a lovely dinner, and perhaps a show.
Of course there will be sex.
We will go together and spend the night together returning in the morning.
I will call her, or she may also call me.
My ideal perfect date is my current girl friend, whom I consider to be my guardian angel.

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Answer 10

I pick her up
Dinner, perhaps thai or sushi - I pay.
Then drinks & dancing (80s stuff, but with some quiet cornes so we can talk)
we go to my place
mind blowing oral (on me)
sex (she comes first)
she sleeps over - wakes up before me and cooks me bacon and eggs.
I drive her home, but we stop off at starbucks first.
I tell her I'll call her tonight - and I do.