They seem to go through a short period where they coomplain less than usual. But then it is back to the piss and moan phase? Is this genetic or os it hormonal? Can it be controlled with drugs or electroshock?
Seriously what would it take for women to quit complaining? Is this even possible?
2007-07-11 17:31:51 · 21 answers · asked by brightstar65 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
If a woman complains, it is usually because her guy is not telling her only what she wants to hear. TRUE?
2007-07-11 17:38:58 · update #1
to Skyehigh: Most women readliy admit they don't touch with a ten foot pole any guy who is into softer things in life, who is more sensitive. So who is causing the problem?
2007-07-11 17:40:45 · update #2
KRTORONTO: I do not need anyone telling me how to live my life, which is why I steer clear of relationships.
2007-07-11 17:45:02 · update #3
Consider WHO they are complaining about! I'm sure that not EVERYTHING you do is perfect - especially by the way you are asking this question...
Or maybe you just need to find someone who will put up with your crap ;);)
2007-07-11 17:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 5⤊ 3⤋
You do have a valid point but, perhaps they have some thing bothering them and just don't know how to really bring it up to you or out in the open. in such case you need to drag it out of her, but if it don't work and it is just a mind game then get out. if you look for the right lady you will find, her they do exist. I do understand what you are talking about....... you always end up in a fight with her cause she always got a problem am i right? I went through this and worse in a marriage and it ended when she finally decided she loved me no more hummmmmmm what did i learn. well i learned from her that we just didn't get along and she was not right for me and that's all there is to it. now i have a women who is totally different from her and let me tell you it really dose come true ...... the dream that is.
2007-07-11 18:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by just another man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just to answer your question. I am very grateful to my dad for NOT giving me up when he really wanted a Son.
And I am VERY grateful to Pastor Ken Deemer who saved my life last year. without him my Daughter would be Motherless.
I have other Men i am grateful for. so NOT ALL Women are like that. God Bless
P.S. I know a few Men that complain a lot. again NO ONE is perfect we ALL have troubles some just want to point the finger at ONE gender instead of BOTH genders
2007-07-12 19:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by Proud Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman is almost always going to be grateful for a man who really loves her and whom she really loves. That said a good man will always be grateful for a woman who loves him whom he also loves. Just a guess, but I would say that most probably, it is relationships that steer clear of YOU, not the other way around, as you claim, and that may be why you are so bitter. If you ever realize that the problem is you, and not the women, and learn how to be a better person to be in a relationship with, maybe you will have better luck.
2007-07-11 18:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jennie t 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
*Most women readliy admit*
HTF did you ever find the time out of your busy schedule of talking to all the women in the world to post your complaints about us?
Ladies and gentlemen of G&WS, please don't try to assure this guy that women aren't the great evil he says we are. He has been at this for quite a while now, and I have seen him have "civil" convos with women where he admitted that he was just bitter and complaining that day, and that he realizes women aren't as bad as he claims they are, he just needed to blow off some steam. This fella is just a troll, a lost wanderer that just doesn't know what to do with itself after Yahoo! got rid of its news discussion feature. But hey, if you think you can get through to him, who am I to stop you? Wish someone would have tried to warn me the very first time I wasted my braincells on trying to assure him that he was wrong and that women can be great and not to judge us on the few that hurt him, but alas, I didn't have a friendly warning. You can talk to him all you want, but it will get you no where. Have a nice evening.
2007-07-11 17:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I'm quite grateful for my husband. The cure for a complaining wife? A guy who treats her with gratitude, respect, and kindness. We have a very quiet, non-nagging sort of household - I can trust that if I have an issue to bring up, he will truly listen and try to help. So, there is very little complaining from me, and none of that complaining every few weeks because the guy didn't bother to listen the first time it was brought up.......
2007-07-11 17:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Junie 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
What you describe is true of more than 1/2 of western women. It's biological and cultural. She can control it by not having as many of those tendencies and maintaining awareness of the ones she has. There are more good women out there than you seem to realize.
2007-07-12 01:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grateful for what ? If a person /woman complain that mean she/he is unsatisfied,right ? It is not genetic or hormonal it is boredom ,mentally unstimulated. Well ,get a woman who is well balance mentally,passionate ,and happy,who does not complain. And see to it that she has nothing to complain about you.
2007-07-11 18:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a woman, I would point out that you are unfair in painting all women with the same brush of ingratitude. That being said, I do believe that women are not as respectful of men as they should be. Society and changing cultural norms have gotten to the point where women are receiving (and believing) the mesage that men are unecessary and expendable. I recently saw an online article saying that men would eventually be unneeded even for conception! Women are told they can, and should do it all... raising children, running a household, and working full-time. Unfortunately many irresponsible men have PUT women in that position by running out on their wives or baby-mommas.
I am very grateful for my husband. He works and we save and budget, coupon clip and go without the latest and greatest so I can be at home. I am very thankful for that. I am thankful that he looks after my car and kills scary bugs. He helps out around the house as much as he can (truth be told I am more of a Mr. Fix-It than he is). We have different, but complimentary roles to play in our household and it is working fine.
2007-07-11 17:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by anon 4 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Personally I don't complain about men. I love men way too much to complain about them. As a matter of fact I take good care of my husband's needs. When he's in one of his moods I keep quiet, when he wants sex I give it to him. When he's hungry I feed him. When he wants to sleep I lay with him until he falls asleep; I don't as a rule ask where he's going when he'll be home. Above all I do never complain and I never let him hear me complain, around him I'm always dressed, he never sees me walking around in my pajamas ever.
2007-07-11 17:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's the bloody hormones.
You are complaining, your female hormones are a little high now.
2007-07-11 19:09:59 · answer #11 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋