Help! I have tried rubbing my clitoris nothing. I have tried inserting my finger into my v*g*n* nothing. I have tried both at the same time. Nothing. The only way I can do anything is to take a marker and move it in and out really quickly. But I think that is dangerous. Plus when I did that I just c*mmed I didn't feel anything. How do you do it????? Thanks!
2007-07-11 14:34:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
OH and what kind of "SOFT" things can you stick up there to masturbate????Everyday things please?
2007-07-11 14:41:42 · update #1
I have tried water, but the way our tup is shaped I cna't reach it. And what is a dildo. Oh and can I use a bannana Oh and I am 12.
2007-07-11 14:52:03 · update #2
you almost sound like you are trying to rush it. Relax honey. I'm not sure how old you are or how new you are at this...but, if you just relax things might work out a little better for you. You really should buy a vibrator. there are really small inconspicuous vibrators if this is something you need to "hide"...But I would strongly suggest you leave the marker to just writing. If you have a detachable shower head....those work WONDERS!!! It gets you at all angles and you can adjust it to however soft or hard you want the water to come out. If you came...and you didn't feel anything...you really just might be rushing it too much. Are you nervous that someone is going to catch you? That will have alot to do with it. I really would keep household objects away from your kitty cat. Even vegetables...I just don't think they belong up there....I mean...i don't know...try a cucumber or something....there aren't any sharp points or edges that would hurt you and its kind of soft. Hope I could help.
2007-07-11 14:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX... you can't get off if your worring about getting off. when i was younger, i used to use a tube of lip gloss. lol. touching my clit didn't feel very good until i was older.try it in the shower where there is more lubrication from the water. i hate to say it but you might be too young. masterbating didn't start feeling good until i was about 17 even though it was fun before that.. i didn't actually *** until i was 18. and you'll know because it feels very good and sometimes liquid comes out. you can buy vibrators really cheap and they work like a charm. i have a pink bunny shaped one for 10 bucks. you'll be amazed what something vibrating can do to your clit.. goodluck darling!
PS. a dildo is sorta like a plastic penis, it doesn't nessisarly look like a penis, say, if you use a cucumber, then it can be considered a dildo, but usually you buy them. sometimes it vibrates sometimes it moves sometimes it's just plastic. you use it to masterbate. i really want one that is pink and a teddy bear shaped. it is awesome. isn't it cute?
2007-07-11 21:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, instead of a marker you should buy a dildo.. It'll work better. Have you tried water yet? Water helps a lot of people climax.
2007-07-11 21:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think you're hitting the right spot. try to relax and find what feels good w/o worrying about the outcome.(no pun intended)just explore. that marker is dangerous.consider something organic like a small cucumber.
2007-07-11 21:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do things that feel good - masturbation is all about feeling good.
Don't use a marker - they have sharp edges, and if the marker leaks the ink is toxic.
2007-07-11 21:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Seraphim 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you came, then you did it right.
2007-07-11 21:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kostas C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋