me and my gf r both virgins. we did it for the first time. I used a condom and pulled out before i finished just to do sure. the condom didn't break,but I did'nt *** in her anyway. then she sent a text saying she thought she could be pregnaunt, how could she be?
2007-07-11 10:28:36 · 18 answers · asked by me 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I talkede to her and she said that maybe it happened from some sperm cells comeing through my pants during dry humping. What are the odds of this and is it even possible?
2007-07-12 11:50:36 · update #1
Both of you guys need to GROW UP!!!
2007-07-11 10:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's highly doubtful that she'd get pregnant from dry humping. Unless you wear extremely thin clothing and came while doing that and shoved the fabric into her, and even then the risk is not nearly so great as sex.
But, unfortunately, if she's this paranoid, you'll for the most part just need to wait to confirm that theory with a pregnancy test. And if she's going to be this paranoid, in the future you may want to step up the birthcontrol to the next level.. the pill, condoms too, etc. The extra layers of protection might reassure her so that she won't feel your sperm has somehow turned into supersperm and can do anything.
And, quite honestly, not to be rude, just realistic, if she is pregnant.. I'd want the baby tested to see if it really was mine. Because the likelihood of that happening is drastically tiny. So tiny I'd pretty much call it nonexistant. If things happened exactly as you said, that is.
2007-07-19 11:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she's not pregnant (how can she be-no sperm actually got into her vagina-it was in the condom)
It does certainly sound as though she's freaking a bit as it was your first time and she wasn't 100% sure what to expect. Plus all the horror stories surrounding sex.
Put blunt; sex is never going to be 100% safe. No matter what protection you use. BUT, it will be SAFER as long as you take precautions to prevent pregnancy and/or STD's, such as the condom (which you have done.)
As long as there are no problems with the condom (ie it didn't split, break or burst) then the chances of pregnancy are very low.
Reassure her that she's more than likely to be fine, and that if she needs more time to adjust before having sex again that's fine also.
Be patient-she's going to feel nervous about something she has no experience of.
2007-07-19 04:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by Loulla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely no. I worked with students for many years and know many of them got very scared after losing their virginity and I was asked just this question. Have her take an at home test if her period is late.
Ideally, you would both ask your parents about this stuff, but I know I am realistic and this often does not happen. That is not an excuse for not getting informed and making wise choices.
If she is or isn't you need to go to educational center ex: planned parenthood or another establishment that can guide/educate you before you venture down this road again.
If she is not Thank goodnes and think long and hard about your next step. No method is 100%. If you go forward & continue to have sex I suggest 2 forms one for each of you.
Good luck
2007-07-18 14:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, any time you have sexual intercourse, pregnancy is a possibility. Even with a condom. Even with pulling out early.
All you've done is reduce the PLEASURE of sex between the uncertainty, the early withdrawal and the whole part about being so young, you're scared of pregnancy.
Do yourself and your girlfriend a HUGE favor and keep your pants on & zipped until you are both able to deal with sex, the possibility of pregnancy and all that it entails.
2007-07-11 17:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by sparki777 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No form of birth control is 100% effective, but abstinence. I have a niece who got pregnant her first time at 13 years old, and she said she used a condom. Good Luck. Sounds like you two need to go to planned parenthood, and get a plan and some additional forms of birth control.
2007-07-11 17:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She's worrying too much. It's not that easy to become pregnant like dry humping and all. No way. There's only like one week out of a whole month that a women can conceive.
2007-07-19 11:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is that one%, but most likely she is just panicing. Trust me, it is very normal, after your first time. You should not get upset, just be supportive, this is a huge step that you have taken, and you will have to get through this "step" together. She needs to know that you will still be there for her if she is and that you understand that with sex comes the responsiblity of the possibility that you may get her pregnant. She may skip her period, because of nerves, just remember, don't freak yet. Good Luck.
2007-07-11 17:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by casady96 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend, Someone will get pregnant or a disease if two people of the opposite sex, who are not married, tempt themselves by being alone with one another. You can get support and information at a pregnancy resource center, which you can find by googling optionline, or call 1800afamily. Take good care. Sincerely, Runner
2007-07-12 21:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she most likely isnt since yalls was both virgins im guessing she is just scared and thinking she is i ha many scares like that but now im 23weeks pregnant with twin girls! but i been with my b/f for 3 1/2 years so i wouldnt have sex Again if you guys are worrying about getting her pregnant!
2007-07-11 17:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by Bonnie Russell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She can't be....young girls sometimes have anxiety when they have sex, even though it was protected and the chance is slim. She also could be doing it for attention, who knows. Wait 3 weeks and then you'll know for sure with a pregnancy test. Anything is possible these days....
2007-07-11 17:34:49 · answer #11 · answered by Lovin' Life As Mama & Wife 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋