Im not gonna lie. I am not talking to any other men, but I am hiding some phone calls of a friend that my boyfriend says is bad influence on me so i've said that I stop talking to that person but I havent. How can I delete calls from the online bill?
2007-07-11 10:21:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lies are a bad way to live in a realtionship. Just tell him and let him get over it or stop talking to your friend to satisfy your bf. I would not stop talking to the person, but I would tell him what time it is and let him decide what is more important. He sounds like a control freak. If this person is a bad influence, maybe you might want to take this into consideration on your bf part. Otherwise, in any case, be truthful. People have gut feelings and this is why they seek proof to their gut feelings, so dont deny him of that. Girl, stop lying.
2007-07-11 10:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't delete the calls from the bill, and you shouldn't have to. Unless your boyfriend is paying the bill (and he shouldn't be, you should pay your own bills), then it's NONE OF HIS BUSINESS who you call.
You shouldn't have to hide your friendship with this person - if you agree this person is a bad influence on you, then stop talking with them; if you don't agree, then tell your boyfriend you are keeping the friendship and while you appreciate his concern, he doesn't have the right to dictate who you talk to.
2007-07-11 10:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant delete calls but you CAN NOT show him your bill. Tell him you arent cheating and he either trusts that or he doesnt. You should not have to PROVE to him that you arent cheating. If he is that controlling then he is the bad influence. A man that makes you prove you arent cheating and controls who you can and cant talk to, is an abuser. He will progress to become abusive. Either more mentally abusive or will become physically abusive.
I suggest you break up with him if he is really controlling. Put your foot down and refuse to show him your phone bill. And if he cant accept that you must dump him.
2007-07-11 10:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can but you can create a new mail box and switch the bill to that .... it isn't any of his business !! It's your right to talk to whoever you want, as long as you are faithful. Do you read his phone transcript ? Sound's a little controlling.Re-route it and don't give him access, unless he pays the bill, then he might have the right to look ?? Depends on the nature of your relationship & your agreement on the phone.
If it's your's ... it's your's ..say "No" . Or just re-route it. It's your call ~
2007-07-11 10:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jeannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to erase calls from the online bill. Maybe you should just be straight forward and honest with him. Either he knows you are lying to him or he doesn't have very much trust in you if he needs to see your phone bill.
2007-07-11 10:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by jb92205 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't tell him the truth, then your relationship is doomed. Might as well call it quits right now. Or you could act like a grown up (how old are you?) and talk to him about why he doesn't want you to talk to your friend. If you can't agree you shouldn't lie and hide the truth. He should just know that you can't agree.
2007-07-11 10:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by happygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is completely inappropriate for your boyfriend to be monitoring either your phone calls or your friendships to the extent that you feel a need to lie and conceal things from him. This is a red flag for a potential abuser or stalker. Time to say bye-bye as fast as you can.
2007-07-11 10:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by RE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he your father or your boy friend, and do he pay the phone bill, do he get to chose your friends ,if you don't trust each
there won"t be a good relationship
2007-07-11 10:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your BF so you don't have to show him anything unless he pays the bill.
On the other hand, if you are in a situation where you feel it's nessesary to lie to your BF - then you should break it off.
a relationship of lies will never end good. He will find out the truth eventually and really not like you anymore.
2007-07-11 10:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by Collette L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be better to delete the boyfriend who thinks your phone bill and who you talk to are his to control.
2007-07-11 10:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋