Ok,One of my guy friends wanted a girl friend so i recemonded my best friend.Now they have been dating for two weeks.Me and my best friend haven't done anything together since they started dating.He comes over everynight.He always calls her.I don't think he wants me and her to be friends..what do I do?
PLUS if I tell her she will think im jealous or something..so I don't know.
2007-07-11 09:46:18 · 13 answers · asked by hehehe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, give it time. You said they have only been dating for two weeks. Right? You know how it is when you first start dating, everything is new and wonderful and you just want to spend time with each other as much as your can. This probably what is going on with you friends.
Keep calling and talking to both of them. If after a month or so he is still monopolizing her time, then is when you may want to talk to your friend. Ask if there is some time when you and her can hang out because you miss spending time together. If you are dating maybe all four of you can go double dating.
I know it is hard when your friend does not have the time for you like before but if she is your friend she will make time for you.
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2007-07-11 09:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by muesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. They have only been together 2 weeks and it is new. They will be together all the time because it is exciting and fun. Give them a little space and time, I guarantee that after a while they will both start coming around. I highly doubt that he doesnt want her around you. It is probably just exciting like I said. If it takes a really long time, why not just call her and tell her you miss her, havent seen her for a while and you were wondering if you could go see a movie, girls night out. If she is a good friend she will get the hint and ditch the bf for a night. But dont get too upset, next time you have a bf I bet the same thing will happen and you will want her to be just as understanding.
2007-07-11 09:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by psalms912b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them enjoy each other for the moment. Who knows how things will turn out, but if she continues to spend all her time with him and not make any plans to hang out with you, then let her know how you feel. Its always like that when single friends get a bf, they go into hiding and want to be with their bf a lot. Start hanging out with other people tho, she can't be the only friend you have. And if she is, make some new friends, now is the time.
2007-07-11 10:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her do her thing for a while.. If they want to spend a bunch of time together, let them. Don't get all angry, just step back and let things happen as they are going to happen. What will be will be, don't ruin a friendship over something like this.
2007-07-11 09:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Bob Thompson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just go straight to him and ask him if he has a problem with you of if you have done something and explain that you think he doesnt want you runnin with your own friend that you set up with him. And then maybe talk to both of them
2007-07-11 09:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 06:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance's friend is acting the same way right now...i think it's just cuz they have just met...they r just all whipped with eachother. but if you find out that is his motivation i would tell him to **** off. you and your gir were best friends long before he came along...why don't you try n tell your friend how you feel, if she is a true friend she will try to spend more time with you.
2007-07-11 09:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by playboyprincess6904 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes honestly ur bestfriend she will understand ur point of view.,..she may not like it but she will understand and if shes a good friend she will ditch the dude and include u back in her life! friends are 4ever...guys come and go!!! Maybe she loves him but she should be like hey boyfriend i need time once and awhile to play w my girls or maybe she should invite u to the movies with them...i would be like WTF?? hello! bestfriend over here...ya know!
2007-07-11 09:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany dawn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you got to tell your friend, "friends name, we haven't any time together since you were with bf's name. I think he might be pulling you away from me, so can you please talk to him about it?"
Something like that hun, and you'll be good. =D
2007-07-11 09:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kiki_♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your friend and if she doesnt believe you should tell her would i ever lie to you about something that serious and maybe shell do something about it
2007-07-11 09:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by littlehamovik405 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋