Iam a freak and my husband is not what should i do to change that. Iam not leaving him because of it because i have never met anyone like him.
2007-07-11 09:33:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
....come to my house?
2007-07-11 09:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should not do or try to do anything to change him. You married him for the person he is and the way he is. Do not try to change him any more than you would want him to try and change you. If you have different interests, talk to him about them and perhaps you can have a freak night and a not freak night each week that will meet both your needs. Who knows, he may start to like the freak night and want two or three a week. Just let him decide if he wants to get his freak on, don't try to change him that never works and always ends up bad.
2007-07-11 16:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will either have to just settle for how freaky he will get or leave and find someone more compatiable. My wife is somewhat of a prude and if could go back about 18 years I might have left knowing what i know now. Just letting you know that hind sight is 20/20 and you might be getting some foresight on what the future holds. If you can live with just boring vanila action this might be all you ever get with this man.
2007-07-11 16:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by QCCP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you need to change for your husband? He should accept you for who you are. My wife calls me a freak all the time and with certain things I am. She may not like the freak part of me but it is part of me. The same applies to her. I would not want her to change, nor would I ask her to stop being a certain way that is different than me.
2007-07-11 16:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by sportsfanstl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of freak are you? Did you husband know about this before he married you?
2007-07-11 16:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by **Llola** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him into what your into. Show him. Why don't you try some of your tricks on him....get him interested and little bit curious. He will want to know what else you got in your bag of tricks and maybe want to learn a couple himself. Just be honest with him and communicate what you like with him.
2007-07-11 16:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by California Kush 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what how is he a freak? u didnt even put a single info about that he is a freak....i dont think he is a freak but i kinda find u one....srry
2007-07-11 16:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by shahreenxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a freak as in your goth and hes a jock? or as in you want sex hanging by your toes from the celing fan and only like is missionary ?
2007-07-11 16:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by eyesinthedrk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you discussed what you would like him to do? And, do you really want to change him, if he is so different. Maybe that is what attracted you. U didnt want the lifestyle you were living before?
2007-07-11 16:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by Qyllix 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep it real and get a freak on the side, call me am' in jersey
2007-07-11 16:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by vicmanpin1@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him about
what you like and try to come to
a comprimise. Is he willing to try
new things? ...take baby steps with
him
2007-07-11 16:43:38 · answer #11 · answered by my_min_tin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋