George was lying sleeping on the couch yet again tonight when i got in from my 14 hour shift. All i asked was for him to prepare a nice Waldorf salad for my dinner, but he couldn't even be arsed doing that. A row erupted and i accused him of having a bit of "hows yer father" with big Margaret next door. I know this isn't true, but i just blurted it out. Now he's finally shifted off the couch and gone out and i can't get in touch with him. I also said some mean things about his mother, and referred to her as Wilma, when her name is actually Bessie. This upset him and he's turned the cat against me now too. I've just thrown a load of his clothes into the dustbin and the guy upstairs from me said i'm a maniac, but i'm angry at him. He ended up rowing with me also, due to me playing Tiffany at full blast at all hours of the night. I like Tiffany though and think music is important. Things have never been the same since my father in law told me that my vacum cleaner was a fake.
2007-07-11 09:14:25 · 22 answers · asked by . 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not a fake. Anyway, what can i do to improve the relationship? He's just phoned to say he's going for a fish supper with Albert. Who the hell Albert is, i really don't know. I'm at my wits end here. Thank you x
2007-07-11 09:15:19 · update #1
Vikki, you are wonderful.
2007-07-11 21:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Oliver C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-19 21:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all he shouldn't have got the cat involved! No seriously sounds like he's a bit of a lazy blighter and needs to do more to help you. Everything has just got blown out of proportion hasn't it, he annoyed you so you retaliated by saying all those things you said. It's not just you that argues over daft things I remember me and mine having a blazing row over lumpy gravy, it's nuts. Don't keep phoning him, get his clothes out of the bin before someone nicks them and just stay calm until he comes home. Don't start arguing as soon as he comes through the door as he'll only run off again. If you don't want this to keep happening you have to discuss who does what in the house and agree if it turns into a row you both won't come out with rubbish again, just go into another room until you cool off or next time it happens turn the tables and you go out for fish and chips somewhere. Have you found out who Albert is yet, probably made him up because he didn't want you to know he was on his lonesome. No more arguing tonight sort it out calmly tomorrow, kiss and make up if you like but sort it so it doesn't happen again!! Good luck, hope you're not going to need it!!
2007-07-11 11:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by clara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep me posted.........this is better than any soap on the TV.
Try asking the guy upstairs to take a look at your vacuum, perhaps your tube needs unblocking. And also, maybe your man did make you a Waldorf salad, but big Margaret ate it when she ate George.....and that is why you can't find him.
Wait 24 hours, and see if the sh*t appears.
As for the cat.....when your pus*y turns against you, use a dog.
2007-07-11 09:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by wonkyfella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you and your man are having some communication promblems, your not talking things out, your jsut getting argry at one another and saying mean things, and neither of you even knows' how the other feels, seems you blow up and get angry easiely, next time you talk to him you need to tell him that the two of you need to have a big talk, then both of you explain to the other how your feeling, what's bothering you about the other person and try working on that, find a solution to this.
2007-07-11 09:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not about the Salad. You feel unappreciated. Your husband has a lack of respect for you and is lazy. Until you resolve that there will be many arguments over salad.
2007-07-11 09:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Kat G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL - Sorry but I find this hilarious! I used to argue lots with my partner now hubby when we first got together, stupid things like this. Looking back it makes me laugh my head off. You need to sort out this crap! if you do love this guy. If so, you both need to grow up and act like adults and not babies.
Ive been with my partner for such a long time! I hope you iron out these stupid niggles and get on with working on being together!
2007-07-11 09:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need serious counselling if you can have an argument like that over a salad. there's obviously more to it or this is a joke! if it is why would you waste your time making something like that up? if not i apologise but its a way over reaction! seek help asap
2007-07-11 09:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you thought about getting a new cat or even a dog- one that you can call your own. Oh and what about getting a new boyfriend- that might be a good plan too.
2007-07-11 09:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ellie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get a real vacuum cleaner.
2007-07-11 09:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the waldorf salad and eat it with emily, then you two can clean the house with the artifical vacuum... i am sure albert won't mind
2007-07-11 09:24:56 · answer #11 · answered by cristelle R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋