2007-07-11 08:31:53 · 20 answers · asked by bye bye 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My mom and I had a bad relationship for a long time, and now she is living with me because she had cancer and I resent her so badly I cant stand to be with her.......
2007-07-11 08:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by Reda T 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cory Tenbloom has an amazing e book approximately this very concern. Even after she had completely believed that she had forgiven all in touch in her ordeal with the holocost and her tormentors,she chanced on that when located head to head with the killer of her sister, she knew in her coronary heart that she had not yet finished the forgiveness technique. Partial forgiveness is many times once you have gotten faraway from a guy or woman or situation and understand which you do not might desire to handle it to any extent further. you already know which you have clearly forgiven once you are able to think of of the incident or the guy or the area and particularly of anger or unhappiness, you are able to smile understanding that God is on top of issues and you will use that incident or adventure to assist others. the 1st step in letting go of grudges, resentments might seem slightly stupid formerly each and every thing, besides the indisputable fact that that's to forgive your self. even once you're a hundred% the sufferer, you nevertheless had ideas, perchance murderous, definatelly revengeful and you will possibly be able to desire to ask forgiveness for those products. as quickly as you have been forgiven on your section in the area, whether it became into in basic terms ideas of undesirable issues, you are able to start the flexibility of forgiving those whom brought about the grudge and the resentment etc. This technique is amazingly effective for survivors of early life abuse, the two actual, psychological and sexual. it may and could artwork for all varieties of concerns wherein we'd desire to forgive so as that we are able to stay.
2016-09-29 13:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend who i need to let go of and then the resentment will go with her
2007-07-11 08:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a major resentment and I learned to let it go for my own health and not to absolve or hold unaccountable for what was done. My second wife was kidnapped out of my arms on New Years Eve 2002 (Happy New Year [NOT!]). Although I got her back by force and back to safety I allowed rage and fury to control my life and it was killing me. Had I followed through with my act of revenge, I would have taken my own life and tens of others with me. Through therapy, I learned to let that anger go for my own health. I am no longer judge, jury, and executioner. That job belongs to another. And now I am happy, joyous, and FREE!
2007-07-11 21:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Raptor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's a cool question, Dr. Bob. I have read that holding in resentments causes cancer. think about it cancer eats one up and that's like a mental thing manifested as a physical.
I need to let go of: how people have taken advantage and used me 'cause I don't know how to tell them no.
2007-07-11 08:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I resent Snocaps in my popcorn.
2007-07-11 08:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do. i am angry with my Mom and Dad because they were so concerned with my brother all through my childhood and now in adulthood. I need and want to let go so I may grow. I'm learning how to forgive now. It's not for them it's for me. Thanks for asking, I needed to say that out loud :( now ;)
2007-07-11 08:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-07-11 08:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kisses 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate liberals, but I don't want to let go of that.
I also hate Java, because it screws up my PC.
2007-07-11 08:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Bill W 【ツ】 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and I'm in the process.
2007-07-11 08:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋