I was having sex with my boyfriend and we realize we didnt use a condom and we didn't know he was going to squirt that white stuff. And it happened and i dont want to have a baby!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!! WHAT DO I DO? I'M ONLY 16!!
2007-07-11 08:23:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
where would i get a condom?? they seem so expensive. I only get money for lunch so I couldn't buy one.
2007-07-11 08:30:03 · update #1
The "white stuff" HAHAHA very funny you should not be having sex if you are not educated about the subject. See a doctor and grow up a little before you spread your legs.
2007-07-11 08:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by chillypowder 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
o my, ok first of all how long has it been since this happened? if you really dont want to have a baby go to a plan parenthood and get the morning after pill i think you can take it up to 3 days after intercourse. I know you might be too young to know when you ovulated so do this go and do a yahoo seach for ovulation calander. You will then type in the FIRST day of your last period. You will also write how long your cycle usually is ( starting the first day of your last period to the day before the next period) if your not sure how long it is type in 28 days. This should tell you how fertile you were when you had sex with your boyrfriend. Every month there is only about a 23% chance of getting pregnant. If you had sex aroudn teh time you ovulated you are more at risk of gettign pregnant. Good luck
2007-07-11 08:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by ssuscello22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sperm takes approximately three days to travel to the egg before it is fertilized. Therefore if you are within this allotted time its best to get an emergency contraceptive.
Otherwise visit your doctor if you wont then have a pregnancy test done ( though this will only show positively after 14 days of fertilization).
Also, if you have had your period within the last four days or expecting it around the same time, then the possibilities of you getting pregnant is slimmer than usual.
If you are having sex then both of you should carry condoms. Its no sense getting all scared about it if you are using it.
You need to be more careful though.
All the best.
2007-07-11 08:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, first of all. How do you not know you didn't use a condom. 2nd of all "that white stuff?" I don't think you even ready to be having sex in the first place. But go to the doctor or get an Emergency contraception pill if it has been less that 72 hours. Oh and your so called boyfriend CAN NOT be trusted if he can't even put on a condom to begin with.
2007-07-11 08:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by Richelle!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait 14 days after and take a pregnancy test. If it is negative and you don't have a period retake it a couple days later until you have a period. Cheap tests work fine. Don't panic, you are probably not. But you can get pregnant all different times of the month. I did with both of mine. You really need to stop having sex. There are a lot of dangers with and without protection. Believe me it's not worth it right now. Best Wishes and it will all be okay.
2007-07-11 08:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by pamela g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all part of the trouble that comes from having sex. All you can do is wait and see if you get your period on time. If not, I suggest you buy a pregnancy test. Hopefully all of this worrying will be enough to show you that you are not ready to have a baby yet.
Believe me, I married the wrong guy cuz I was pregnant (at age 22). Sex is so not worth it.
2007-07-11 08:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by lookoutthewindow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope for your sake and the world at large that you aren't pregnant- Since " You can't fix stupid !" You don't just realize that you "didnt' use a condom" and that "he was going to squirt that white stuff..." It's called sperm and if you don't know the name or how to protect yourselves than you probably shouldn't be engaging in sex.... I don't think anyone wants you to have a baby... for the dumb factor alone.... Good luck you need it... !
2007-07-11 08:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, regardless of what your bf told you, he did know that he was getting ready to ***. Now, there is precum and that is different and can still get you pregnant. Secondly, you can go to your local planned parenthood to get condoms. Thirdly, talk to your parents. No matter how hard it is, chances are they would prefer to put their 16 year old daughter on birth control instead of raising their 16 year old daughter's baby.
2007-07-11 08:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Jen M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i find it hard to believe that you are THAT stupid as to have sex and not expect it to come.
i feel like this is a joke.
but anyway, you need to get the morning after pill or take a pregnancy tests in a week or two.
you can get the morning after pill from planned parenthood...and while youre there you might want to get an std test and pick up a pill for your best friend too.
seeing as it was a threesome and he may have had an std...
2007-07-11 09:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by (Linzee18) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That "white stuff" is called sperm. That makes you pregnant. You're not necessarily pregnant, but you should go see the doctor, or take a pregnancy test. Shame on you for not protecting yourself AND for not knowing what sperm is. Like seriously, I'm fourteen!
2007-07-11 11:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by Kristiina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋