2007-07-11 07:37:31 · 12 answers · asked by j t 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Never! Its like being a willing accomplice to murder. It is never a good, let alone moral idea to suggest or recommend the idea to suicide to anyone. No person has the right to knowingly place suicidal thoughts into someone else's mind.
Being socially inept and not being able to make friends is no reason to deny someone life---these are things that can be helped, then that person will be able to live a happy life.
2007-07-11 07:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Heart of Fire 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you can't make any friends, you must feel very alone right now. I hear you, because I've been at that point in my life, where I felt that there was no way out, that I could never hope to have a real connection with anyone because I was too shy/dorky/whatever.
If you're feeling that way, relax... there is hope. First because no matter how socially inept you think you are, or even how inept you may be in reality... there will always be lots of people around you that are in the same boat! And they probably know EXACTLY how you feel. So you are not alone. You are in good company. Very good company. :)
Being socially "ept" or whatever you call it actually isn't any decent way to make friends. It's a good way to skim along on the surface of relationships and impress people, if that's what you are looking for. Approval for that kind of behavior may feel good... sorta... but it really isn't all that satisfying except to soothe the ego. My guess is there are other things you are good at besides making dynamite small-talk.
If certain people can't see or appraciate you for who you are, then THEY are the ones who are incapable of making--or being--friends. Don't waste your feeling on them. You're worth more than that. Seek out others.
Thinking you're going to be alone forever can certainly make you feel hopeless. Please remember you're not alone. Ever.
Feeling alone right now can be painful. But it won't kill you. If anything, it has probably also given you a little more empathy for others who feel the way you do. Use that empathy to your advantage. There is nothing that people like better than to feel understood--so right there you have something people want in a friend. Just don't be afraid to be real, even if that means being a little vulnerable.
*hugs!*
2007-07-13 16:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by imuneekru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!!! That is no reason for a person to end their life. There are ways to help this person become more social and more comfortable around people so they can make friends. There are support groups where they can be around others who feel the same as they do and that always helps...to know you aren't alone & aren't the only one who feels that way. Also, counseling can really be a big help in overcoming social phobias and learning to accept and like yourself with some work and effort. Life is a journey and an adventure. It changes all the time and we never know what the future holds for us. Never give up. There is always hope and life is worth living!
2007-07-11 10:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I would recommend consultation with a psychiatrist to see if this person has a diagnosable mental illness or other problem that might be aided by prescribing a medication, followed by a referral to a counselor or therapist who can help them to improve their social skills, work on their self-esteem, and find ways to improve their adjustment to life.
There is lots of help out there, but a person who needs it has to be willing to accept it and work with people. I do not understand an attitude that prefers death to seeking help. "Suicide is a permanent solution to temporary problems."
2007-07-11 07:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Karin C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are they miserable with their social ineptness or inability to make friends?? They may be perfectly content in their own little world.
Anyways, no. I would not recommend suicide for this issue.
2007-07-11 07:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't recommend suicide to anyone.
2007-07-11 07:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No social skills can be learned and eventually everyone has one person who likes him/her.
What a horrible susposition to make.
2007-07-11 07:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why recommend them when you can just do it you self dude lol it nothing big deal if you are every depress and all that but you hear people say "to live is better than to die" hehe that is what i say if you friend want to die just go just say this this world dont need you if you die there will be other take you place hehehhe god love you so if you friend want to die just tell him give you all the stuff before die r sell you lol
2007-07-11 07:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by ken p 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO!!!!!! People can change and suicide is never an option!
2007-07-11 07:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by sally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can u ever RECOMMEND suicide??!!!
2007-07-11 07:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by Renee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋