Cheating husand?

Question

I am really starting to think that my husband is cheating on me. He is getting some phone calls that he is not picking up when I am around. He is snicking around the house and taking some things from basement to his office when I am asleep. Each time when I walk in to his office on his computer he is closing the websites or whatever he is working on. Last night I noticed how he walked to the laundry room to check on his pants packets and he grabbed some piece of paper and hide from me when I walked in on him. I talked to him about all of it, obviously he said that I am imagining things. I know that I don’t I know him.
Please help !

Answer 1

If you truly believe it and have tried talking to him about it and aren't satisfied, and you know that it's not around the time of your birthday or anniversary or anything that the secrecy could be a surprise for you then- check his cell phone log, the history on his Internet. Visit him at his office more surprise visits, and different times through out the day,
If you don't get to the bottom of it and find out one way or the other you are going to go insane.

when my ex cheated I just knew it, it was this feeling I had, he came home and I slugged him and said how could you, and he said who told you- my answer was you just did. I'm not a violent person and wouldn't suggest that route, I am just saying there are many ways to find out, because it always comes out.

Answer 2

Something isn't right, it sounds as if your suspicions are justified. I would suggest software to record his actions online, you can get a keystroke logger or screen recorder, just be sure that you leave no trace of installing it. You can get the phone records and find out the number he won't answer, go to a pay phone and call that number. You need to reconcile this or you will never be happy. Hopefully he is not cheating, but there is enough reason to investigate further. If he is close the websites, he is likely doing something wrong on the computer. Maybe it is porn, maybe an online girl, who knows, but the fact that he is sneaking around would suggest you need to look into it further. Do the software and check the phone records and you will have what you are looking for. If you want to take it a step further, hire a private investigator, although I think you will find what you are looking for with just the computer and phone. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

All guys do NOT cheat, and women cheat almost as often as men. That said, it's unacceptable unless you have some kind of open marriage. You don't deserve to wonder about this and obviously there is no trust there and probably no respect, but you need to demand honesty from this guy or else you take the law into your own hands and do some serious investigating, or hire a P.I. Where there is smoke there is usually fire. Good luck, I hope you really are imagining things but I doubt it.

Answer 5

All sounds a bit suspicious. If you know about PCs, buy a "key logger" - I saw them advertised in a magazine today for £45. You basically plug it into the back of the computer (where he won't see it) and it records all key strokes made. You can then check to see exactly what he's been typing. I know this might sound a bit extreme, but if you were to find things typed that you don't like the sound of, at least you've caught him and he doesn't need any explanation as to why you went to those lengths. Good luck and i hope it all just turns out to be nothing. x

Answer 6

Well there's defianately something going on. Girl if you have a gut feeling i say spy on him. I know you've got friends that will loan you a car or maybe even spy on him themselves. Too bad I don't know or else i'd help you out I've got a great team that helped me!!!! I had a great husband that would do anything for me and we started to have some problems. I was never a jealous person specially when it came to him. but when i got that little felling i had him followed an guess what... he had met up with his co-worker and left his car at a shopping center and taken off in her car. That was the one and only time I followed him and look what happend. So you may not imagining things.

Answer 7

Well....if not 'cheating' he certainally is being elusive about something isn't he?

"Its your imagination". Yeah..right. What a chump he is if he tossed that line out.

My first thing is...when he's going to be out for awhile, start a search of the basement. Look in every nook you can find. Locked cabinets are off limits unless you come up empty. Quite frankly...nothing in my basement is locked up so what could there be in yours if you find a cabinet or room that is locked?

Computer cookies, history's and URLs are all logged into the drive. there are some very good programs like Spectre that ghosts the websites and chat files to the drive so you can bring everything up...even if he erases the history.

What fools we mortals be.

Good luck lady. I suspect when you find what you're looking for you are not going to be happy. But...if it is something you need to discover (and I can understand why) he asked for it with his silly antics.

Answer 8

You know follow your heart :( I've been here ....and I went through the same thing the hiding things talking on phone in other room. I would ask whats up and he told me he only loved me and there was nobody else ...Or that I was imagining thing...well guess he was cheating on me and he lied about that too until I called the woman he cheated on me with and she told me!! Do your homework find out whats going on ......it might not be bad but it will make you feel better, and it was better that I found out.

Answer 9

Do you have caller id? check that. Dial *69 to get number of last caller if you don't have caller id.Can you check his history on computer websites when he is not around. You say you don't know him. How is it that you are married? Sometimes we see fault because we are at fault? Is this the case. Be a detective and find out. The pain is not easier if you find out now or wait. Ask direct questions and watch his eyes. Does he love you the same in bed?

Answer 10

He might be but then again he could be planning a surprise for you, are you having problems in the marraige, has your sex life changed, has he done it before - you need to think about other areas before you can confirm he is - why not ask him outright - he might have a good reason for acting the way he has been or he might admit that he is having an affair - at least you will know and can get on with deciding what to do.