i have been wth my partner now just over 2 years we have a good relationship but differnet sex drives i have a high sex drive and he has a low sex drive i have tried to take to him about it but he becomes upset and tells me its my problem not his i have tried lots of ways to entice him but nothing works instead i'm left feeling rejecet is there anything i can do
2007-07-11 05:55:35 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's what you can do about it.
2007-07-11 05:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low sex drive can be the result from many factors-drugs, alcohol, poor diet, lack of exercise, lack of sleep. Try identifying any of those causes first-I know that when I eat poorly and don't exercise I have no energy for sex or much of anything else. See if you can get him to make some lifestyle changes.If these do not seem to be the cause, maybe its a purely bio-chemistry thing which is hard to work with. Or, I really hope this isn't it, he might be getting his sex somewhere else. Overall, I must admit that it seems odd to me that a man would resist sex so much. I hope things work out and good luck.
2007-07-11 06:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by newbs343 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending on age he may have low testosterone levels. a doctor can run a simple test and if so proscribe a gel or patch. if this is it he will also benefit from more energy and fat loss. There are some otc's that will do the same but they are expensive and do have side effects.
Be care full what you wish for, If the above is correct than after treatment YOU will be the one looking like you have a low drive.
2007-07-11 06:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by rleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat Fish, Shrimp, Oysters, Clams, Goats milk*...
2007-07-11 07:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try dressing up or making him feel like he,s wanted...... if thats what you are trying and its still not working then drop me a line and i,ll see if i can,t help you out lol xx
2007-07-11 06:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look up food which boost your sex drive
2007-07-11 05:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you badger him, the worse it will get.
Take it gently, and be loving (NOT ONLY SEX)
2007-07-11 09:49:55 · answer #7 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a toy for your own pleasure and let him come to you when it suits his drive
otherwise this could cause you to split.
2007-07-11 10:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by thunor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to eat lots of zinc....gillian mckeith recommends it! and also he shouldnt drink alcohol, smoke or anything like that.... be feisty ;-)
2007-07-11 05:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by MEGative 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like my kinda bird, why not drop me a line x
2007-07-11 05:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah call him limpy and laugh at him
2007-07-11 06:17:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋