My life is so boring. I work, go to school and sleep. i have no friends. when I do hang out(alone) nobody talks to me. Can people smell the 'loser with no life' in me? i'm NOT going to just go up and talk to people, i have nothing to say and that's not my style. What to do?
2007-07-11 04:40:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi.. you're not a loser, you are a busy person though!
you work, go to school and i'm sure these two life activities take up most of your time.
maybe in your spare time, you can join a gym, or take karate class, or find some social outlet in a group of people? this is a good way to get to know others, and meet people gradually. it's a thought.
i'm sure you're a great person....
2007-07-11 04:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a hobby that you enjoy and that other people are involved!!
Stop being so down on yourself. You are not a loser, you are only a normal person who is feeling down. That happens to EVERYONE now and then!
You do have something to say, read up on what is going on. Go see live music and talk about it with the people around. Don't sell yourself so short.
2007-07-11 11:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't be a loser..........you have a J.O.B.!!!! and you go to school......kudos to you! maybe you should try and start up a conversation with someone in your classes, it couldn't hurt. start by asking about an assignment or notes, etc......
you can also try hanging out at a book store where you may find someone with the same interest in the type of material that you like to read or you can take up a hobby, you're bound to start talking with people then. whatever you do, you can't continue to wait on someone to start up a conversation with you, you can do it too! what have you got to lose? if that person brushes you off, then try again! and.........always smile!
good luck!
2007-07-11 11:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by luv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm dont u talk to ANYONE? Ppl just arent' gowen to magically be friends with u if u continue with the attitude of the guy with no friends so it better become ur style to talk to ppl otherwise its ur own fault u have no friends.
2007-07-11 11:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uswe your money get a hot pad and start hangin out with lil jon YEAH
2007-07-11 11:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow looks like you got a problem... idk dont be so anti social... get out there mabey have a little party, youll definatly get noticed then! Good Luck
2007-07-11 11:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Patty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋