I am almost 13 and like i really like this one guy and he likes me!! He is 14 and we want to go all the way and have sex but idk if i am ready for it should i or should i wait!??!!
2007-07-11 04:05:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Please wait. If you have to ask strangers if you're ready then you aren't. Your virginity is something you can only give to one man and that man should be someone who can appreciate what a special gift you've given them. I believe that at 12 you can have very strong feelings for a guy but rarely are these feelings of the lasting variety. This is the time for you to learn about relationships. What type of guy makes you happy, how to maintain a relationship or just what is involved in being in a relationship. Your thoughts, feelings and beliefs will change as you get older and have more experience in all things. Please, please, please wait. I can promise you that you'll be glad later on in life that you did.
2007-07-11 04:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any questions about whether you are ready, then you aren't. You aren't even 13 and this is your first relationship. Give it some time. Just because you like this guy now doesn't mean you will still like him 2 months from now. You should wait to have sex until you are in a mature, committed relationship. At 12 or 13 years old, that is not possible. Just wait. You will be glad you did. And if you do have sex, make sure he uses a condom. You do not want to get pregnant or contract a sexually transmitted disease.
2007-07-11 11:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by kat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, don't rush into the whole "going all the way" thing.
There are dozens of ways for 2 people in love to make each other feel good; only 1 of them, "going all the way" can get you pregnant. Once you've done ALL the other ones SO many times you're totally bored, you'll be in college, and be able to be on birth control pills so you won't get pregnant.
Condoms do fail some times, as you can tell from all the "I'm 13 and pregnant, now what" questions.
So don't rush. It'd be like getting a new DVD and skipping ahead to the last 5 minutes every time you watch it. You won't know what you missed, and for all you know you skipped the best part.
2007-07-11 12:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait. You don't want to hear this but in the grand sceme of things, you are a BABY and why you are even considering this is beyond me.
Instead of worrying about having sex, do this:
Take up a hobby. Sports will really increase your self esteem and keep you in shape.
Work on your mind. Read. Read some more. Find out what interests you.
Cultivate your female realtionships. These are the people that you will elan on throughout your life and they'll be there in the way boys never are.
Enjoy being a KID. Have fun just playing and being silly. Why do you want to complicate your life with sex? sex only makes a mess of things. Keep your innocence
2007-07-11 13:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by cherryvalley2006 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should wait. You don't want to hear this but in the grand sceme of things, you are a BABY and why you are even considering this is beyond me.
Instead of worrying about having sex, do this:
Take up a hobby. Sports will really increase your self esteem and keep you in shape.
Work on your mind. Read. Read some more. Find out what interests you.
Cultivate your female realtionships. These are the people that you will elan on throughout your life and they'll be there in the way boys never are.
Enjoy being a KID. Have fun just playing and being silly. Why do you want to complicate your life with sex? sex only makes a mess of things. Keep your innocence.
You aren't ready. Trust me. I'm old.
P.S. if you do have sex, please use birth control. It only takes one time without to make a baby.
2007-07-11 11:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dalice Nelson 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
You definetly have to wait til your ready. Don't and I mean don't let him perresure you into sex. No matter what he says don't do it til your absolutly ready. You will be mad at yourself and possibly him for a long time. It can cause you a graet amount of depression. I know you don't want to hear this but if he really likes you he'll understand that your just not ready. If your worried about what anyone else think, don't! Trust me anyone whose opinion is woryh caring about will be proud of you for sticking up for youself, anyone who makes fun of you or anything like dosen't care about you so it dosen't matter what they think. Oh and if he threatens to break up with you for not having sex, then he isn't a worth talking to cause only an a**hole would do that. I hope I helped.
2007-07-11 12:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by monkeyqueen992 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think that you are ready for sex then DON'T. If he really likes you hell wait. You don't want to go all the way and do something you will regret. because if you get pregnant do you really think hes going to stick around.
hope it helped ;>)
2007-07-12 13:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by tynkabelle03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know if you are ready but I suggest waiting because your body isn't ready to handle a child at your age and you most likely aren't ready to raise one. Not to mention since you both don't know what you are doing it will be more painful for you.
2007-07-11 12:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♥me♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14 and you should definetely wait, I mean what if you get pregnant your only 13!!!
2007-07-11 11:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by kjdhflkdsfkjd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont kno if your ready your not. wait.
what is it with all these children having sex?! the worlds gone mad!
is it me or are these children having sex getting younger too?!
2007-07-11 11:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋